Originally Posted by OnTheBrink
Cool! I got some pressure when I was first married for 3 years without getting pregnant (intentionally). We were Roman Catholic and no one could figure it out. They assumed we were having trouble getting pregnant. Well, a birth control pill does cause some trouble with that!
My first husband died when our daughter was 5 months old. My second husband is a former Roman Catholic priest. Though we are no longer Catholic, we got down to business and were pregnant within 3 months of the wedding!
Anyway - don't worry if you don't get pregnant right away. Do you have the book called Taking Charge of Your Fertility? It's SO helpful!
I am sorry to hear about your first husband
You mentioned birth control....well his family and our religion doesn't believe in birth control (That is something I don't agree with) and everyone in his family have 5 or more children each. His dad is the deacon of our church so he is VERY religious. They will be very happy once we do get pregnant, but we are not telling anyone that we are trying because we want to completely surprise them. The good thing is that I have been off of the pill for over a year (since I had a bad reaction) and we have only been using a condom...so at least I won't have any delay based on the bill.