haha, this is kinda weird but, can someone help me with some guy problems im having?? I'm in a position in which i don't know what i want to do any more.
Ok. Here's the scoooop!!! My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 7 months, and every once in a while we would get in these arugements that really bug me. For exampe. Today we just returned from a little vacation from the dells. Both days were filled with alot of stuff going on; water rides, walking around and just plain having fun. When we returned from the Dells I figured we would just chill out around the house for we had a long few days. Well, his friend called and wanted to know if he wanted to go to HWY 100 ( A place were you race your car, illegally, kind of a dangerous thing and so i really don't wanna go when he takes his car, I'm really afraid he's going to break it.) Anyway, he didn't really get my input in the situation, at the time i was thinking about rather or not i should go or not. I told him how it would be a bad idea to go anyway for the fact that gas here is bout $3.27 and his car doesn't really get good gas mileage, also it was going to rain later on too. So basically he told his friends that he would go without letting me tell him rather or not i wanted to go or not. Then he said some comment on how we were together for the past few days and that he wanted to at least go to hwy so his friends won't complain about it later. He told me that he would only race once and then just cruise there after, Then! he said Oh, i'll probably race a few times. Then he got kinda mad at me because i didn't want to go and he really wanted me to go, but the only problem is that I don't want to be in the car if he is going to race. If i were to go to hwy with him all his guy friends were going to be there and i would be the only girl..kind of a weird situation for me since i really don't know his friends that much. Basically he wanted to be with his friends, yet he wanted to be with me. He got all mad at me because I didn't want to go. So i told him go off and be w/ your friends tonite and might as well be with them tomorrow. I was just surprised at the fact that I thought that we were going to chill out at the house and just relax. I feel sometimes, in somewhat simular situations that he finds his friends more important. I hardly see my friends at all. Yet he can see his anytime he wants, and then im left to do nothing. he told me that he sees his friends enuff yet he seems to be hanging out with them more and more. And also doesn't really want to listen to me, he isn't really good on money, yet he will drive his car around that is about 7-8 miles per gallon with the gas as high as it is. And when he does go with his friends and i ask if i can go with, i never can.
i don't know, this has been happening on and off with arguements like this and its starting to get to me. I'm just getting sick of each other getting mad at each other. sorry for this being so long but in order for someone to help me you kinda have to know what the situation is. If anyone can give me some advice that would be greatly appreciated!!.
Ok. Here's the scoooop!!! My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 7 months, and every once in a while we would get in these arugements that really bug me. For exampe. Today we just returned from a little vacation from the dells. Both days were filled with alot of stuff going on; water rides, walking around and just plain having fun. When we returned from the Dells I figured we would just chill out around the house for we had a long few days. Well, his friend called and wanted to know if he wanted to go to HWY 100 ( A place were you race your car, illegally, kind of a dangerous thing and so i really don't wanna go when he takes his car, I'm really afraid he's going to break it.) Anyway, he didn't really get my input in the situation, at the time i was thinking about rather or not i should go or not. I told him how it would be a bad idea to go anyway for the fact that gas here is bout $3.27 and his car doesn't really get good gas mileage, also it was going to rain later on too. So basically he told his friends that he would go without letting me tell him rather or not i wanted to go or not. Then he said some comment on how we were together for the past few days and that he wanted to at least go to hwy so his friends won't complain about it later. He told me that he would only race once and then just cruise there after, Then! he said Oh, i'll probably race a few times. Then he got kinda mad at me because i didn't want to go and he really wanted me to go, but the only problem is that I don't want to be in the car if he is going to race. If i were to go to hwy with him all his guy friends were going to be there and i would be the only girl..kind of a weird situation for me since i really don't know his friends that much. Basically he wanted to be with his friends, yet he wanted to be with me. He got all mad at me because I didn't want to go. So i told him go off and be w/ your friends tonite and might as well be with them tomorrow. I was just surprised at the fact that I thought that we were going to chill out at the house and just relax. I feel sometimes, in somewhat simular situations that he finds his friends more important. I hardly see my friends at all. Yet he can see his anytime he wants, and then im left to do nothing. he told me that he sees his friends enuff yet he seems to be hanging out with them more and more. And also doesn't really want to listen to me, he isn't really good on money, yet he will drive his car around that is about 7-8 miles per gallon with the gas as high as it is. And when he does go with his friends and i ask if i can go with, i never can.
i don't know, this has been happening on and off with arguements like this and its starting to get to me. I'm just getting sick of each other getting mad at each other. sorry for this being so long but in order for someone to help me you kinda have to know what the situation is. If anyone can give me some advice that would be greatly appreciated!!.