I'm really scared...

No advice, but I hope it all goes OK. What an awful situation to be put in. You'll be in my prayers.

I will deffinately be praying for you.

I can understand how the police is corrupt in the U.S. I only have too many horror stories to tell but I won't out of respect for the other people involved in.

I can only offer my sympathy and tell you it is great your husband is going with you. He sounds very caring and considerate (your husband, not your dad).

And remember, dogs use size and aggression to determine who is boss. Cats use a steady gaze and calm demeanor. If you visit, be a cat. Be calm and steady, and know that in a pinch you can leave the situation.

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Prayers and positive vibes are coming your way.

Thank you all for your prayers and vibes. I will be sure to let you all know what happens.

I am so sorry, that things where that bad for you.
Unless you feel that you HAVE to go, I would not do it.
i wish you the best of luck

Aw... are you going to go? I would call and ask for more details before I went. Maybe he just needs your signature on some legal document, or something else where you have to be physically present (that isn't necessarily bad in and by itself).

I think you've gotten some great advice here. I think taking your hubby, pepper spray, and having someone call you are great ideas. Or even if you don't have someone call, you can tell him that you are. It's probably best to just go and get it over with. Better than worrying about what it is he's going to say.

I was going to suggest a restaurant, that would be the ideal situation. But I guess that's out. Please let us know if you go, and if you're ok afterward...??? In this thread so those of us who are concerned won't miss it?

There are those of us who have had fathers who are similar to this, so feel free to PM if you want. Hugs, Kim.

Thank you all again. I will be going to his house tonight around six or seven. Its 3:30 here now. I will update you all as soon as I can. I really hope its nothing serious, and that it goes smoothly. I really didn't expect any replies to this thread when I posted it. Its so nice to know that you guys care!! I'll post again when I get back tonight. Wish me luck!

Luck!

Good luck!

Good luck with everything

Good luck God Bless and let us know!

{{{{{{Sending Good Vibes}}}}}}}}}

I've been checking this post and I keep coming up empty for profound things to say - I think the advice you've been given has been good, and I don't have anything new to add.

I just want you to know that I have you in my thoughts and that I am deeply sorry that you and your loved ones have these fears.

I just caught this thread now and I can only hope that everything is ok and on the up and up. {{{{{{{VIBES}}}}}}}.

Good luck. lots of vibes and

I asked her to respond in this thread, but if anyone sees anything else, please let us know!

Sorry kluchetta, I posted an update in a new thread.....I'm a little off at the moment

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Sorry kluchetta, I posted an update in a new thread.....I'm a little off at the moment

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Tsk, tsk. I'll go lookin.