I was wondering when you have all of those cats can you actually bond with any of them or all of them or do they just go off with each other? I have 4, but I have had Bella for almost 13 yrs and she's always been my baby the one on my lap and the others know this...Sophia is 7 and she could care a less if she sees us during the day, Severino 3 yrs old and Joey 2 yrs old are loves and love affection and each other. But they all know their place...Bella is first.And with her being sick they are much more attentive to her and curious, she is not amused.Just curious as to how this dynamic works in your house, Thanks