Okay... I've gotten so frusterated with wedding planning.... everyone wants to have their input and their ideas considered... and some people are being really negative about the whole thing.
See, it's really important to fh to not have alcohol at our wedding. Comments I've gotten from everyone else are something like, "Well, you'll have a short reception," and "People expect it, it's kind of rude not to provide it."
Anyway... what if...
...We went to Port Townsend, WA, and either got married in Chetzemoka Park in the morning, or on a Whale Watching ride in the afternoon.... came back and ate Thai food and then went to Fort Worden for partying??
We could rent Madrona Vista (a building there) and a dormitory wing (has private rooms) for people to stay in (it would be cheaper than a hotel) and could dance and party on the "inviting back deck" and "two dining room/large gathering areas." My Uncle lives in the area, and I'm sure he could hook us up with a live band that could come and play for a few hours.
If it's raining, we could do the ceremony at Fort Worden in the evening.... and the group would be fairly small... so just completely changing that part of the plan in the middle of the day due to weather wouldn't be too difficult.
I completely shocked my Fh last night presenting this idea... I think it would be fun! And so different no one would be expecting anything. If they wanted a drink, they could get it at the Thai resturant on their own tab (We would pay for non-alcoholic drinks) and no one could get too drunk cause they'd have a only a short time for drinking.... or if we ended up needing to feed everyone at Ft. Worden, the serving of alcohol has to be approved, which we wouldn't look for.
On top of that, we'd get to spend the whole day with our guests (esp. the ones we don't see often) instead of just a few hours at the reception.
See, it's really important to fh to not have alcohol at our wedding. Comments I've gotten from everyone else are something like, "Well, you'll have a short reception," and "People expect it, it's kind of rude not to provide it."
Anyway... what if...
...We went to Port Townsend, WA, and either got married in Chetzemoka Park in the morning, or on a Whale Watching ride in the afternoon.... came back and ate Thai food and then went to Fort Worden for partying??
We could rent Madrona Vista (a building there) and a dormitory wing (has private rooms) for people to stay in (it would be cheaper than a hotel) and could dance and party on the "inviting back deck" and "two dining room/large gathering areas." My Uncle lives in the area, and I'm sure he could hook us up with a live band that could come and play for a few hours.
If it's raining, we could do the ceremony at Fort Worden in the evening.... and the group would be fairly small... so just completely changing that part of the plan in the middle of the day due to weather wouldn't be too difficult.
I completely shocked my Fh last night presenting this idea... I think it would be fun! And so different no one would be expecting anything. If they wanted a drink, they could get it at the Thai resturant on their own tab (We would pay for non-alcoholic drinks) and no one could get too drunk cause they'd have a only a short time for drinking.... or if we ended up needing to feed everyone at Ft. Worden, the serving of alcohol has to be approved, which we wouldn't look for.
On top of that, we'd get to spend the whole day with our guests (esp. the ones we don't see often) instead of just a few hours at the reception.