Out of the blue my Exboyfriend e-mails me. Now here's the deal, the last time we spoke was on HORRIBLE terms. Lets just say I was not to kind to him. I'm scard to open the e-mail. Now it's been almost 8 years, do you think he's over it?
True. He could have joined AA, although I totally doubt it. The weird part is I had a dream about him a few days ago. I sort of pushed it aside and thought that it was just my brain processing through some stress.Originally Posted by Zissou'sMom
If he's not over it after eight years, he's not worth your time. If he wants to get back together or something, remember why you broke up. It could also just be that he needs to ask you a question or tell you something, legitimately.
A lot of men go through a weird period sometime in their life when they contact all their ex-girlfriends asking them what went wrong. Because they are having trouble in their marriage, because they are still single, whatever reason.
I would open it, begin reading, and if you don't like what it says, trash it and forget about it. If you really haven't had any contact with him in eight years, it's more likely something you would want to read than not. Maybe he joined AA and wants to apologize or something, really it could be anything, and if you're anything like me you won't be able to stand not reading it!
EXCELLENT IDEA.Originally Posted by lookingglass
I think I'm going to have my husband read it first. I don't want him to think anything weird is going on.
I've seen way too many Dr Phil's where the wife/husband is caught in an emotional affair. That's the last thing I need him to think that I'm doing.Originally Posted by shengmei
EXCELLENT IDEA.
I always open emails I find questionable with my husband.
What a jerk! Aren't you relieved that you aren't still with him!?!Originally Posted by lookingglass
He was trying to sell me something. Now I remember why I broke up with this! 8 Years later and you are trying to get me to buy life insurance!!!! I just HAD to tell him my husband is an insurance agent and we have all the insurance we will EVER NEED UNTILL THE END OF TIME!!!!!!!!!
As a guy, there is some good advice there.Originally Posted by Zissou'sMom
If he's not over it after eight years, he's not worth your time. If he wants to get back together or something, remember why you broke up.