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I feel teribble.......

post #1 of 15
Thread Starter 
I may have just lost one of my best friends
post #2 of 15
How, what's happened???
post #3 of 15
Thread Starter 
well, I don't wanna say everything but they told me to tell them something, and I didn't want to becuz I knew it would hurt them, but they made me tell them, so I did............it's confusing
post #4 of 15
Sounds like it is incredibly complicated...but rest assured that if you lost their friendship over something so small as what it appears to be (mind you of course we don't know the whole thing), they weren't worth being your friends in the first place.

Trust me also, most of the people you make friends with in High school you will almost never talk to again as an adult. If you feel like embelishing some more about the situation, we are all here to listen and offer you a shoulder....virtual counts!
post #5 of 15
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lol! thanks it's not a small thing though, and I've known him for 3 years straight. he never actually said he was mad at me, but he said he needed some time..guys are so confusing! and no, this is not my boy friend
post #6 of 15
Perhaps though, he needs time because he is feeling attracted to you, boys are funny things. And they say girls are hard to read, well I say boys need to come with an instruction manual. He's probably just being moody. Give him time...he'll come around.
post #7 of 15
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lol! all right...and thanks
post #8 of 15
No problem, boys, especially teenagers (though it doesn't get any easier as they get older believe me, my DH is 31), are quite the curious creature.

I think they should feature them on the one of those animal planet shows....now that would be interested.

The secret lives of boys....
post #9 of 15
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Originally Posted by ButterflyDream
Sounds like it is incredibly complicated...but rest assured that if you lost their friendship over something so small as what it appears to be (mind you of course we don't know the whole thing), they weren't worth being your friends in the first place.

Trust me also, most of the people you make friends with in High school you will almost never talk to again as an adult. If you feel like embelishing some more about the situation, we are all here to listen and offer you a shoulder....virtual counts!

My 3 best friends are from high school...If the friendship is strong enough, it will last way beyond high school. Don't worry, I'm sure you 2 will be alright
post #10 of 15
Thread Starter 
ok....I sent him an email, and I know he's on, but he's just ignoring it....i think
post #11 of 15
Like I said, just give him some space, he may or may not come around, if he does, that'll be awesome, but if he doesn't I'm really sorry.

It's either a couple of things.

1. He really is starting to have feelings for you and is confused and needs time to sort them out.
2. He has a new girlfriend and she's jealous of his incredibly beautiful friend and told him that it's either her or you.

I honestly don't know. But you can count some of us here on TCS as your friends. I know what it's like not to have any IRL friends. So you won't be totally alone.
post #12 of 15
Thread Starter 
aww, thanks!!
post #13 of 15
Thread Starter 
yay! I just talked to him, and he said he's not mad at me! just suprised, but he said it wasn't really my fault, so everythings cool now
post #14 of 15
I'm so glad.....I know how worried it can make you to think you may be in the throes of losing a friendship. I'm glad all is well.
post #15 of 15
I am glad he is not mad at you. Real friends are very hard to come by.
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