Hello,
I am new to this forum! I have had cats all my life, but as I am now out of college, I decided to get cats of my own. About a month ago, my fiancee and I adopted Mishu, a 1 year old female. She was pretty aggressive, biting hands and feet a lot, and not stopping even when a toy was given to her. I spoke with the shelter that I adopted her from (I also work there - the Boston Animal Rescue League) and they suggested I get Mishu a playmate. Last week my fiancee and I picked up Lily, a sweet 3 month old female.
Lily is very affectionate and likes to be pet and held. Mishu can only stand to be pet and held for a few minutes before she bites. We kept Lily in the bedroom for the first few days and would take her out and put Mishu in there so that Mishu could get used to her scent. After a few days, we introduced them for short periods of time. Mishu would hiss and swat, but nothing too major.
As of late they are more comfortable around each other. However, Mishu will climb on top of Lily and start cleaning her. Lily will stand for this for a few minutes, and then she will try to leave. When she tries to leave, Mishu will start biting her ears and throat. This prompts Lily to start squealing and hissing, but Mishu usually does not stop. Sometimes they start to tussle, and Lily will squeal then as well. Lily's safe spot is her litter box, which she will sit in when she doesn't want Mishu to be so rough.
My question is, is this behavior normal? Should I be worried that Mishu is making Lily squeal a lot?
Thanks!
I am new to this forum! I have had cats all my life, but as I am now out of college, I decided to get cats of my own. About a month ago, my fiancee and I adopted Mishu, a 1 year old female. She was pretty aggressive, biting hands and feet a lot, and not stopping even when a toy was given to her. I spoke with the shelter that I adopted her from (I also work there - the Boston Animal Rescue League) and they suggested I get Mishu a playmate. Last week my fiancee and I picked up Lily, a sweet 3 month old female.
Lily is very affectionate and likes to be pet and held. Mishu can only stand to be pet and held for a few minutes before she bites. We kept Lily in the bedroom for the first few days and would take her out and put Mishu in there so that Mishu could get used to her scent. After a few days, we introduced them for short periods of time. Mishu would hiss and swat, but nothing too major.
As of late they are more comfortable around each other. However, Mishu will climb on top of Lily and start cleaning her. Lily will stand for this for a few minutes, and then she will try to leave. When she tries to leave, Mishu will start biting her ears and throat. This prompts Lily to start squealing and hissing, but Mishu usually does not stop. Sometimes they start to tussle, and Lily will squeal then as well. Lily's safe spot is her litter box, which she will sit in when she doesn't want Mishu to be so rough.
My question is, is this behavior normal? Should I be worried that Mishu is making Lily squeal a lot?
Thanks!