My mother wants us to visit her at least once a month. The problem is, we are not really making money in the summer since the teaching jobs have dried up. We can't afford to go visit her in Houston since the gas would cost us about $50.
What is the easist way to tell her this? My hubby doesn't really like to visit her and my mother thinks my hubby wants to keep us apart. Hubby simply wants to save the money instead of going on a joyless journey every month.
My mother is expecting us to visit her next month at my sister's birthday. I feel conflicted because birthdays are really important but my sister is my mom's favorite child. The last thing I need to do while struggling to stay in grad school is to hear how my sister is superior to me.
I guess maybe I could get my mom to help us with the gas money, but I think that could be kind of rude.
What do you guys think?
What is the easist way to tell her this? My hubby doesn't really like to visit her and my mother thinks my hubby wants to keep us apart. Hubby simply wants to save the money instead of going on a joyless journey every month.
My mother is expecting us to visit her next month at my sister's birthday. I feel conflicted because birthdays are really important but my sister is my mom's favorite child. The last thing I need to do while struggling to stay in grad school is to hear how my sister is superior to me.
I guess maybe I could get my mom to help us with the gas money, but I think that could be kind of rude.
What do you guys think?