Well it appears my grandmother has gotten greedy and declared all out war on me. She buffaloed my dad as well. But that is beside the point. Let me make it first known that this topic ISNT about the money, ok sure 1,000 would be nice but my great grandmother was worth far much more to me than that. Its a principal thing..
Alright, my great grandmother passed away in March, its been recently i have found other things out. I got a copy of the will paperwork, from my sister. I did not get a copy myself, because my Grandmother left my name off the list she had to supply to the lawyer. And from what everyone in the family says she did it purposely. My great grandmother helped me financially on occasion when I lived in a smaller town. I guess my grandmother feels that nulls what my grandmothers will states that "All great grandchildren get 1,000"
I am flabbergasted at the fact that Yes my name is glareingly missing, My sister is there, my four year old cousin is there but Me the eldest great grandchild is absent. My whole family saw that. It makes me feel like I do not exist, and in essence that is exactly what the lawyer thinks I do not exist he doesnt know.
So my question for anyone that knows. Can my grandmother, or the lawyer (for not verifying) get in trouble for this. I have looked through the document. And on the end of the form just before the names to be listed it does states "Under penalty of perjury I decalre or Afirm I have read this document and I know or belive it to be true and complete"
I really a hurt by being left out. And as i stated its not about the money If 1,000 out of 80,000 plus 100,000 of the estate means that much to her she can keep it. But not even being mentioned. And she has not returned my calls in attempt to contact her about it.
So..I am sure i will be angering the family when I contact the lawyer..not sure what else to do. I at least want the acknowldgement.
Alright, my great grandmother passed away in March, its been recently i have found other things out. I got a copy of the will paperwork, from my sister. I did not get a copy myself, because my Grandmother left my name off the list she had to supply to the lawyer. And from what everyone in the family says she did it purposely. My great grandmother helped me financially on occasion when I lived in a smaller town. I guess my grandmother feels that nulls what my grandmothers will states that "All great grandchildren get 1,000"
I am flabbergasted at the fact that Yes my name is glareingly missing, My sister is there, my four year old cousin is there but Me the eldest great grandchild is absent. My whole family saw that. It makes me feel like I do not exist, and in essence that is exactly what the lawyer thinks I do not exist he doesnt know.
So my question for anyone that knows. Can my grandmother, or the lawyer (for not verifying) get in trouble for this. I have looked through the document. And on the end of the form just before the names to be listed it does states "Under penalty of perjury I decalre or Afirm I have read this document and I know or belive it to be true and complete"
I really a hurt by being left out. And as i stated its not about the money If 1,000 out of 80,000 plus 100,000 of the estate means that much to her she can keep it. But not even being mentioned. And she has not returned my calls in attempt to contact her about it.
So..I am sure i will be angering the family when I contact the lawyer..not sure what else to do. I at least want the acknowldgement.