Okay. My Sheba loves me and I know she does, but she is the most stand offish cat I've ever know. She hates to be held and we've had her since she was a wee little kitten so she is familiar with the whole family. She rubs your leg, and will give you kisses sometimes but she is in NO way a loving, purring, bundle of joy lol, but I love her. I wish there was something I could do to make her a more loving animal but I doubt it. If there is something I can do please let me know, but she's just not the "pet" type. My second question is when she loves me now, which I think she's pregnant and that's why I get as much love as I do, she rubs my leg and rubs her head all on my feet to the point where she almost seems to be ready to flip over. She does this several times when I'm going in and out of the kitchen I always check her food and water level, and I always pet her becuase I want more lover from her, lol figure that, so I never miss an opp. to show her affection, but everytime, and it NEVER fails, about the fifth or sixth trip in the kitchen, and rub all up and down the leg she give me a nip on the foot. What is that all about? She has food, water, toys, and my undivided attention, and most of time she doesn't want my attention. So what is the nip for? And BTW she was doing this B4 we thought she was pregnant. It doesn't hurt at all but I just have to know why she is doing that as it is the ONLY time she bites, nips, or puts her teeth to anyone and she only does it to ME