How do you turn a guy off?

There is this guy that i go out to dinner with, and i knew he wanted to come around to check out my place today since he knew my parents went away.. mind you we havent kissed or anything.

So out of nowhere i tell him

"i cant have people come around tonight, i want to relax and the litter box really smells!"

The look on his face was so shocked

Tell him you have five cats.

Don't they come with an on/off switch? I just think it's hidden

talk about marriage or commitment. he'll run for the hills.

Originally Posted by ckatz

talk about marriage or commitment. he'll run for the hills.

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Unfortunately that isn't always the case... sometimes you get a stalker from that situation... believe me I've been there! Even though I'm married (and not to him) he STILL bothers me!

Originally Posted by ckatz

talk about marriage or commitment. he'll run for the hills.

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Not my man. He was talking about committment from week one.

You have to start out subtle, like saying "It's so weird how all my friends are guys" and things like that, so that he knows you have no romantic intentions. If he keeps acting like he wants to kiss you or whatever, tell him a little white lie like you don't want a relationship or he reminds you of your brother/uncle/father/ cousin whatever. If that doesn't work, cut off all contact with him for a while, or just talk/see him in social settings with other people or online or something.

No offense, but if he didn't know you weren't dating him, you may have been leading him on and he thought you were dating. If that's the case, it should clear it up just to make sure he knows you didn't think you were dating.

If you want to be sneaky about it (well, we are girls aren't we?) have a friend ask you in front of him if you're dating anyone and say "No, not right now!"

Fwan, that was brilliant! I can only imagine the look on his face!

Oh no, ive made it clear i dont want a relationship. because of the fact im leaving soon.
And he took it okay, from what i understood anyway.
Think he got the point anyway, too bad though he is really a nice guy, dont understand why im not attracted to him

I use to keep a picture of a baby in my wallet. When the timing was right, I would pull it out and say "This is a picture of my son"

That got rid of them FAST!

Start crying, most men can't figure out how to "fix" a woman that cries, so they tend to run away.

Hey, there's lots of ways to turn off a guy. Let me see ...pick your nose, scratch your butt, burp, fart,.. should I go on?

Originally Posted by georgiagirl8

Hey, there's lots of ways to turn off a guy. Let me see ...pick your nose, scratch your butt, burp, fart,.. should I go on?

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You just described my husband and I's first date!

Just Kidding

Yeah, ask him if you are exclusive. Seems to work for me!

Originally Posted by Zissou'sMom

If he keeps acting like he wants to kiss you or whatever, tell him a little white lie like you don't want a relationship or he reminds you of your brother/uncle/father/ cousin whatever.

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You cut a very loud fart when he hugs you.

Oh I almost forgot about this one, talk about your ex ALL the time. Say you still have feelings for him. Perhaps make up a story of how you and your ex had a date in the same spot that you and the current guy are in. Talk about it the WHOLE time.

Tell him your biological clock is ticking like crazy

Ohhh I know, talk about your intimate life with other bfs, in exaggerating detail. (if you know what I mean )

Originally Posted by shengmei

Not my man. He was talking about committment from week one.

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lol. Mine too. He was like "lets stay together forever, seriously."
I was like "HUH?!" (Having never heard that line before.)lol.

Anyhow..Yea, Turn offs...hmm...Yea, just act nutty. Guys are afraid of girls that cry alot, talk wierd, say they are alcholics, and like lookingglass said, Talk about your ex.