Steve is the only man I have lived with. Than again hes also the only man i have "been" with if you get what I mean, lol we arent married yet. But we will be.
I guess techincally we have "lived" together since the start of our relationship. When we met Steve was a traveling musician and I was inbetween apartments of my own and staying with grandma. I had just moved back from a small town to the cities and was still searching for an affordable place. But due to go to camp that summer so not in a huge hurry.
We met in May, by August when i was hitting the papers more heavily while at camp for apartments Steve brought up. Why dont we get a place together. And make a Home together. So we started looking together. When I got home I did most of the leg work and when he was in town for a weekend we searched out the apartments i had listed. And Wala we have our current home we moved in October (so it wasnt WaLA lol took a while to find it)
I think its the best thing I ever did and my Family was Very happy about it. Financialy it was smart, and they knew I wouldnt just jump in if I wasnt sure. The Febuary after we moved in Steve quit his on the road band, because he HAD a home and wanted to get his roots firmly in it
that was the happiest thing i could have heard. well aside from when he proposed to me
Sure we have our moments of arguements like anyone else. but we always work them out and never ever go to bed angry. I think you learn very valuable things about one another when you live together. Things that can potentialy lead relationships to break up if you dont address them ect.
And we will be getting married when fiancialy allowed
nothing fancy but purely us