Thanks again everyone, you're all awesome.
We did get a chance to talk yesterday - and I really don't think he has an addiction - I think he does it out of habit, and because its around him. Yes, I understand that since he has been smoking for about 10 years, (give or take) that its awesome that he's only done it only a handful of times in the past year. I just guess it was the lying that really hurt me, I never thought he would lie to me - ever.
We got to spend a lot of quality time together yesterday and got a lot of things sorted out between us, much needed things. A lot of them were trust issues with us. We trust eachother, but we are both so scared of losing eachother, as we were both hurt horribly in previous relationships. I told him that we can't build our own relationship if we're still living in the past ones. He agreed and we both promised to make things better. This was a HUGE eye opener for me, a huge one.
It was a really long weekend, a lot of crying and wondering 'whats next?'
I put my ring back on, after we talked. I told him again that this ring for me stands for trust, and if I ever feel as tho he can't come to me and trust me with his problems, than the trust obviously isn't there, and either is the relationship.
I think its all going to be okay. He told me that he wants to stop, but was only afraid to tell me cuz he thought it would hurt me (well duh, obviously!!). I told him to always come to me, I wont make him stop, but I will HELP him stop.