or Connect
TheCatSite.com › Forums › General Forums › The Cat Lounge › New Kitty :)
New Posts  All Forums:Forum Nav:

New Kitty :)

post #1 of 17
Thread Starter 
My husband and I are going to the animal shelters tomorrow to look for a friend for Emily! I am sure we will find one to bring home (I know I will want all of them). Pictures will be coming!
post #2 of 17
Best of luck getting your new little angel!
I'm sure you will find a perfect friend for your little Emily!
post #3 of 17
Yay! I'm sure you'll find that special kitty to take home. I'd love to go in and take them all too. At least you will be able to rescue one.
post #4 of 17
The problem Jenny will not be bringing them all home! LOL

post #5 of 17
Thread Starter 
I know, I already found 5 that I want on Petfinder just at one shelter!
post #6 of 17
Hi Jenny,

I volunteer at an animal shelter with the kitties, so I spend lots of time with them, know them all very well, and know how they react with people who walk in compared to us volunteers.

So a couple of tips:

1. Find a shelter with volunteers who know the cats. Listen to the volunteers. If there's a cat you really like and they say "this cat doesn't like other cats/children/noisy households" etc and you have one of those things, please really rethink whether cat that might be right for you.

2. Tell the volunteer your living situation and what sort of cat you're looking for. They should be able to tell which cats would suit you. If you don't like any of those cats, then maybe try other shelters, or come back another time. You don't HAVE to get a cat the first time you go to a shelter. It pays to look around and be patient. This is your furbaby for life.

3. If you can, go during the week when it's a little more quiet. The weekend volunteers at my shelter don't know the cats as well because it's so busy on weekends, they don't get time to get to know them. During the week, the volunteers get more one on one time with the kitties so know them a lot better. Also, if you go during the week, you're more likely to be able to spend quality time with cats you're interested in. On weekends, there's often too many people to do that. As well as that, the cats get stressed with so many people coming through, so you won't see their best side.

4. Spend lots of time with the kitty you're interested in. Talk quietly when you're spending time with them, don't move too fast, and don't expect them to want to play or want to cuddle immediately. Just sit still for 5 minutes and watch them and let them get to know you. Like I said, no matter how well they're cared for, it's a stressful situation, so give them time to settle down with you and show their real personality. If there's a play area you can sit with them in, make sure you don't have the entire family in there - maximum of 2 people is good.

5. If you have small children, and want to adopt a kitten, prepare yourself for the fact that the shelter may not let you adopt a kitten. At our shelter we have a rule that families with children under 6 can't adopt kittens under 4 months of age. They're very fragile, and can't run and hide as easily. We had a number of kittens come back with broken legs one summer a couple of years ago which got this rule enforced. Your child doesn't NEED a little kitten - wait until they're older and can understand the responsibilites of having a little kitten, and enjoy it more.

6. Find out which kitties have been there the longest and ask about them. We have a gorgeous kitty at our shelter who's been there 5 months now! He's a shy boy with a damaged eye that looks horrible, because a cat beat him up in his previous home. When he gets to know you though, he's the sweetest most lovable kitty. Another girl and I have spent lots of time with him, and now he loves us. When other volunteers have him in the play cages, he hides and won't come out. With us, he never hides. He cuddles, he plays and has a great time. This is the REAL Inky. When he first came to the shelter, he wouldn't even come out of this cage to play in the play room. Now he jumps down from his cage on his own and runs into the play room as soon as you open the cage door. He has improved sooo much since he's been at the shelter. Unfortunately the public will only see this side of him when the other girl and I are around. Even if these long term kitties aren't a kitty you could take, maybe you know someone who could give a home to a shy kitty who needs a quiet, indoor home.

Mmmmm I think that's about it for now... Good luck in the search!
post #7 of 17
Thread Starter 
Hi Sarah P! Thanks so much for the info! We're going to the shelter as soon as it opens tomorrow, but if it's still too crowded, we'll go back during the week. And we don't have any kids. Let me know if you think of anything else I should consider!
post #8 of 17
No problems, I see so many with good hearts who adopt a cat that's not necessarily right for them. They'll still love them, but we try our best to get a perfect match!

I can't wait to hear about your experience, and who you adopt!
post #9 of 17
What a wonderful idea! And be sure to check out the threads with tips on introducing a new kitty, so Emily enjoys getting a sibling! I can scarcely wait for the news announcing who the lucky winner of your pet search is
post #10 of 17
Thread Starter 
Well we found him! Here is his page on Petfinder:


We might get to pick him up tomorrow night! I'm so excited. After talking to the shelter volunteers, we realized that we definitely need someone calm to match Emily's personality. We spent some time with Chessy and he is just the sweetest cat. Plus he has gorgeous blue eyes. We have already set up the room where he's going to stay before we introduce Emily.

post #11 of 17
He's beautiful.
post #12 of 17
What a sweet looking boy!!!! Our kitty is a lynx point tabby, and also a love bug - maybe it's the type

Hope you have a great life together!!
post #13 of 17
Thread Starter 
post #14 of 17
Originally Posted by Jenny82

You're welcome
post #15 of 17
What a gorgeous boy! Congratulations to Emily & you & your hubby! I hope that Chessie gets to come home soon! He does look like a real sweetheart!
post #16 of 17
Thread Starter 
I'm leaving work to pick him up in an hour!!
post #17 of 17
Thread Starter 
Chessy is home! He is doing great! I really did not want to leave for work this morning. I'm going home on my lunch hour to check on him but I know he is fine. He kept quiet all night. I tried to take some pictures of him last night, but it was hard because he was constantly rubbing on me no matter where I went! He must be so happy to be out of the shelter.

He is in the guest room for now, so Emily hasn't seen him, but she can hear him. She has hissed at the door a couple of times after hearing him meow. Last night she looked like she was mad at me and my husband and wouldn't come near us for a little while, but then she warmed back up to us. I know she is feeling pretty territorial. Is there anything else I can do to make it easier for her? So far she has gotten a lot of attention and treats. Thanks everyone!

P.S. Look for Chessy tonight under fur pictures only!
New Posts  All Forums:Forum Nav:
  Return Home
  Back to Forum: The Cat Lounge
TheCatSite.com › Forums › General Forums › The Cat Lounge › New Kitty :)