HI!! I adopted a female grey striped tabby whom i have bonded really well too,she's my baby! But i have also adopted an orange tabby for a companion for her and i'm having a hard time bonding with him, He's cute and all and i do love him but i just have'nt you know,bonded.Could this be due to the fact that hubby picked him out?Is this normal on my part?Or does it maybe take a little longer to bond to others,he's really aloof and to himself,where Peaches is in your face snuggle and cuddle.Could this be why i'm having such a hard time? I really do want to bond with him but i don't know if i will.