My cat Souffle is driving me crazy! He's 15 and very attached to me, clingy is a good term for it. He follows me everywhere, even to the bathroom. He has a fit if I go in a room and close the door, his pupils dialate and he will howl and scratch at the door for HOURS (not exaggerating here) until he either forces the door open, or someone lets him in. He really works himself into quite a state.
I just moved out on my own a couple of weeks ago and I took Souffle with me. His behaviour was tolerable before, mainly because he went outside on the deck in the afternoon when it was nice outside, and at night he was locked downstairs with his brother in the rec room. People usually look horrified when I mention this, but they had plenty of food and water and toys and their litter down there, and a huge overstuffed chair and a variety of cat beds. Of course they ignored the big nice chair and cat beds and crammed themselves into the tinest cat bed together. He did not have his scary scratching fit when in the rec room, for some reason.
Anyway, now Souffle is with me and he will not let me sleep. He is an extremely talkative cat which I can tolerate in the daytime, but at night I need my sleep. He meows and meows and meows and howls and tries to sleep on my face or my neck. He wakes me up at midnight with his meowing. This is the reason that he had to go in the rec room, by the way. I can't lock him out of my bedroom at night because he stands at the door and goes into his desperate scratching fit. He's not hungry (he gets a bite to eat right before I go to bed) he's not thirsty, he gets lots of attention and playing with during the day.
What can I do to calm my crazy cat down so I can get some sleep? Keep in mind that this is not new behaviour, if he was allowed to sleep with me before I moved out he did the same thing.
Any help or suggestions would be appreciated!
I just moved out on my own a couple of weeks ago and I took Souffle with me. His behaviour was tolerable before, mainly because he went outside on the deck in the afternoon when it was nice outside, and at night he was locked downstairs with his brother in the rec room. People usually look horrified when I mention this, but they had plenty of food and water and toys and their litter down there, and a huge overstuffed chair and a variety of cat beds. Of course they ignored the big nice chair and cat beds and crammed themselves into the tinest cat bed together. He did not have his scary scratching fit when in the rec room, for some reason.
Anyway, now Souffle is with me and he will not let me sleep. He is an extremely talkative cat which I can tolerate in the daytime, but at night I need my sleep. He meows and meows and meows and howls and tries to sleep on my face or my neck. He wakes me up at midnight with his meowing. This is the reason that he had to go in the rec room, by the way. I can't lock him out of my bedroom at night because he stands at the door and goes into his desperate scratching fit. He's not hungry (he gets a bite to eat right before I go to bed) he's not thirsty, he gets lots of attention and playing with during the day.
What can I do to calm my crazy cat down so I can get some sleep? Keep in mind that this is not new behaviour, if he was allowed to sleep with me before I moved out he did the same thing.
Any help or suggestions would be appreciated!