I was personally engaged exactly one year before the wedding, but I have never heard this rule before. I personally think it is not necessary. I think if you are engaged to the right person, you can be married ASAP.Originally Posted by annabelle33
at least a year of engagement for the wedding..
I think a year is usually the "generic' period of time to plan a wedding, it took me and my mom a little over a year to plan mine, my ex and I were engaged a little over a year and a half, also what's the point of being engaged if its only for a short period of time? may as well just straight get married if the engagment is going to be so short.Originally Posted by shengmei
I was personally engaged exactly one year before the wedding, but I have never heard this rule before. I personally think it is not necessary. I think if you are engaged to the right person, you can be married ASAP.
Why do you have to get engaged for a year before the wedding? When we were planning the wedding (2 months before the wedding) every single day we spent $...............It seemed like every single day we found out something we needed to buy that we had never heard of before.
I must have a different point of view because I am Asian, so please bear with me.Originally Posted by katiemae1277
what's the point of being engaged if its only for a short period of time? may as well just straight get married if the engagment is going to be so short.
You know what they say "Once a cheater, always a cheater".Originally Posted by Renny
and you know what he did to you with this woman, he'll do to her in a few years (if that).
I felt really old at age 19Originally Posted by jcat
A previous relationship ended much like yours did, and I felt that at 22, I'd never find "Mr. Right". Nine months later I was married to my husband.
Amen to that girlie. I never thought I'd meet a man that would love both me and my daughter....and here I sit happily married going on 4 years now.Originally Posted by shengmei
I felt really old at age 19. I was worried that I was a lesbian because no guy had asked me out.Then a month before I turned 19 I met hubby and I am now happily married.
When you meet the right guy, it doesn't take very long to just know he is right for you.
Which gets back to engagements and planning weddings. We met in early October, got engaged in late March, and married (civil and church ceremonies) in June. And managed to plan two receptions (one in Germany, and one in the U.S.).Originally Posted by shengmei
I felt really old at age 19. I was worried that I was a lesbian because no guy had asked me out.Then a month before I turned 19 I met hubby and I am now happily married.
When you meet the right guy, it doesn't take very long to just know he is right for you.
Which gets back to my original point that people shouldn't have perconceived notions about how long to date, how long to stay engaged....etc. etc.Originally Posted by jcat
Which gets back to engagements and planning weddings. We met in early October, got engaged in late March, and married (civil and church ceremonies) in June. And managed to plan two receptions (one in Germany, and one in the U.S.).