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post #61 of 70
my friend's mom had one...
post #62 of 70
I am very sorry for your loss. My Mom, who had 5 children, had a miscarriage. And I had a miscarriage, too, and have 4 children. So know that you are not alone, and an early miscarriage does not mean anything is wrong with you, or your ability to carry a baby.

My sister has 4 living daughters. She had a miscarriage with her second or third pregnancy. The doctor told her it was a blighted ovum, meaning a baby never actually developed, but it was more like just cells. However, she had a dream that the baby was a healthy boy. She and her husband decided to name him Michael Kevin, after his father (Kevin Micheal).

I guess I'm just trying to say to take this at your own pace, and grieve in your own way. If you do run into people who cannot possibly understand or support you, don't try to explain it to them. Just let their words bounce off you, and know that you have plenty of support from your husband, family, and friends.

Maybe you can print out a nice copy of that beautiful poem, with all the dates on it. You could hang it on the wall, or put it someplace special.

Condolences to you, and all the others who have posted about their miscarriages!
post #63 of 70
oh sweetie.. I am so sorry. you and your family will be held close in my thoughts and prayers. please know that we're here for you.
post #64 of 70
Ahh that was Lovely really, sometimes it helps to put things on paper. When my first hubby passed away I did that every night just for myself, because sometimes other people just don't understand, and it helped me deal with alot of things.
post #65 of 70

I am sorry for you loss and my heart is hurting for you. I have never had a miscarriage and I can not completely understand what your going through but reading this story and others, I could feel the loss of yours and others precious angels. Your poem was beautiful, it made cry a little actually. I don't know if it was the poem or me, I've been a little emotional lately. But anyways, you are in my thoughts and prayers.
post #66 of 70
You're in my prayers and thoughts. If there's anything you need or just want to talk about, please let me know...i'd be happy to listen.
post #67 of 70
I am so sorry.
I am new here so we don't know each other but I am sending you healing vibes xx
post #68 of 70
Thread Starter 
A full long week has passed since the miscarriage (ironicly I lost the baby on 6-6-06 ) and things are finally starting to go back to normal again. I'm feeling 100 percent physically, and I'm learning to deal more with the emotional damage.

Sunday night an old friend of ours popped by unexpectedly and his girlfriend is 7 months pregnant. She has a huge belly, and just bought all kinds of cute maternity clothes. All they could talk about was the baby stuff, and I had a nervous breakdown and had to lock myself in the bedroom until they left. I was so embarrassed. (They didn't know what had took place by the way.) Today I went to my youngest brothers baseball game though, and there were TONS of preggers and women toting around tiny babies, and while it was hard, I dealt with it much better. It's just gonna take some time I guess.

Anyway, sorry to ramble. I just wanted to let everyone know that I'm doing much better and to thank everyone again for all of your support and kind words. It really does mean the world to me.
post #69 of 70
oh that poem is so sweet.
post #70 of 70
I am so, so sorry for your loss . You and your husband are in my thoughts and prayers.
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