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So my girlfriend has had a siamese mix cat for roughly 4 years, we've been together for six, she even had me pick the cat out from the pound as a present, she said she couldn't do it because she'd want too many. So I picked a nice playful kitten, she had no problems with me.
Four years later... This cat loathes me. I'm surely convinced it absoutely HATES me.
When I'm walking around the apartment, if she's in a direction I'm going, she hisses at me, as if I'm going to get her. Obviously I'm not. I've been walking with stuff, empty handed, all of that. The cat has attacked the maintence personnel, she's went after me, she hisses at everyone of my friends who come over, she hates EVERYONE. EXCEPT my girlfriend? This cat could be ready to annihilate my face, back arched, claws out, swatting at me, and my girlfriend will casually as plain as day, bend down, pick the cat up, and speak to her in Japanese(my gfs Japanese) and the cat stops, the cat won't even dare hiss at her, it did once, and she yelled at it, and that was that. No more she'll even pet the cat, or the cat will lead her to the food bowl. I've even tried going to the food bowl after she's acted mad at me, maybe thinking she was frustrated that I wasn't getting the clue, no. She won't even go near any food I've put down when she's mad at me. I've learned what my GF says in Japanese, and tried repeating it, nada. If I feed her, she'll look at me like I'm mentally retarded. She'll go get my GFs attention, and my GF will grab a handful of food, and just put it over the food I already put down, and the cat is goes to town on the food.
I've changed shampoos, cologne, left it off, tried everything I could think. I've even, in a desperate attempt to not have my ankles turned to a bloody mess, rubbed her own hair all over myself, hoping I'd smell like her.
Now what's even more confusing, is when my girlfriend and I are laying down in bed, when my gf lays her head on my chest, the same very cat, who no more than three minutes ago was swatting at me, will get on my chest and just.. sit there, if I try and pet her, holy hell breaks loose. But oh no, if my GF does it, she just purrs and purrs and is all happy, will prance around, will lay on her back on my chest and roll off, and play with my GF, but if I even attempt to move, she gets mad at me!(The cat)
I'm so utterly confused. I've never punished her, yelled at her, or anything.
In the past I could play with her, feed her, et cetera. Now it's like, I have to watch my step or my foots going to be ripped up. I've even taken to wearing long pants and shoes all the time! It's getting rather hot here, too.
I'm just so very confused. Any ideas, or should I just accept the fact I'm her mortal enemy apparently?
Four years later... This cat loathes me. I'm surely convinced it absoutely HATES me.
When I'm walking around the apartment, if she's in a direction I'm going, she hisses at me, as if I'm going to get her. Obviously I'm not. I've been walking with stuff, empty handed, all of that. The cat has attacked the maintence personnel, she's went after me, she hisses at everyone of my friends who come over, she hates EVERYONE. EXCEPT my girlfriend? This cat could be ready to annihilate my face, back arched, claws out, swatting at me, and my girlfriend will casually as plain as day, bend down, pick the cat up, and speak to her in Japanese(my gfs Japanese) and the cat stops, the cat won't even dare hiss at her, it did once, and she yelled at it, and that was that. No more she'll even pet the cat, or the cat will lead her to the food bowl. I've even tried going to the food bowl after she's acted mad at me, maybe thinking she was frustrated that I wasn't getting the clue, no. She won't even go near any food I've put down when she's mad at me. I've learned what my GF says in Japanese, and tried repeating it, nada. If I feed her, she'll look at me like I'm mentally retarded. She'll go get my GFs attention, and my GF will grab a handful of food, and just put it over the food I already put down, and the cat is goes to town on the food.
I've changed shampoos, cologne, left it off, tried everything I could think. I've even, in a desperate attempt to not have my ankles turned to a bloody mess, rubbed her own hair all over myself, hoping I'd smell like her.
Now what's even more confusing, is when my girlfriend and I are laying down in bed, when my gf lays her head on my chest, the same very cat, who no more than three minutes ago was swatting at me, will get on my chest and just.. sit there, if I try and pet her, holy hell breaks loose. But oh no, if my GF does it, she just purrs and purrs and is all happy, will prance around, will lay on her back on my chest and roll off, and play with my GF, but if I even attempt to move, she gets mad at me!(The cat)
I'm so utterly confused. I've never punished her, yelled at her, or anything.
In the past I could play with her, feed her, et cetera. Now it's like, I have to watch my step or my foots going to be ripped up. I've even taken to wearing long pants and shoes all the time! It's getting rather hot here, too.
I'm just so very confused. Any ideas, or should I just accept the fact I'm her mortal enemy apparently?