Well here's a tiny up-date. She was signed up for a "couple's" getting ready for baby class. I havent talked to her about how it went yet.
She missed her last 2 dr's appts due to no ride. ( I was working, otherwise I would have been joyed to take her).
At her last doctor appt. They told her she is now considered a "high-risk" pregnant women. The baby is much too small. She'd like to have a C-section.
They were supposed to have a car by now, but apparently they cant go pick it up because niether of them has a lisence.
She's due at the end of this month...Although she looks as if she's ready to pop today. Wierd being that the baby is so small.
She's been avoiding me too.
So I've been keeping my distance.
They went to Wal-mart with $200 in gift cards, and got diapers, a car seat, and some other baby items. Enough that I know the baby will be fine for a little bit. No crib, or bassenet, or anytype of sleeping arrangement yet, and no formula because she plans on breast-feeding. But I just hope she knows about what not to eat & drink while doing that. She plans on going to work a week after the baby is born. That'll change right after she has the baby for sure. They said they still have $40 bucks that they plan on spending after the baby is born for other things they didnt know they needed. I've got a few books to give her.
I told her fiance that they obviously have no idea what's about to hit them. I explained that there will be no more "HALO" parties at 1 a.m., no more drunk friends in the house smashing things, I just basically explained to him that thier ENTIRE WORLD be different. He says he knows, but she doesnt.
I'm sure it'll all work out. If not, I am right here, and whether or not she plans on avoiding me after the baby is born, I will be stopping by to make sure everything is ok.
I could just die sitting over here wondering about it.