Well I certainly screwed up, but they did too.

Alright, today was by far the worst day of my life.

I came into school and since I'm pretty much done with everything I was just wasting the day away reading my Motley Crue book and paying no mind to anything, that is, until I heard one of the pregnant girls talking bad about my good friend Zack (Who was sitting right across from me with his headphones on so she was being extremely low and taking advantage of the fact that he couldn't hear her.) Well then I got up and walked away for a bit to make sure I didn't do anything stupid. Well in my case the best way for me to handle my anger in a responsible way is to talk it over with a friend or write about it, in this case I did both. I passed a note to Zack and we were just passing notes ranting about how stupid people are to talk about others etc, and me being the average idiot even brought up what that pregnant girl had said. He didn't mind that she was being low and I was just explaining to him that that's an example of how I've also gained patience over the years because if I hadn't of walked away I would've messed her up and pretty much beat the heck out of her.

Well then the teacher called science class and so we all went to science, came back and I went back to reading my book with my headphones on. Next thing I know the pregnant girl comes over holding the note that I had put in a folder and buried it under all of my books! (in other words, they had to look pretty hard to get it.) The fact that she even went through my things set me off because they have been doing this to me all year! I have even brought it up to the teacher that these kids are messing with my things and NOBODY is doing ANYTHING about it!

Me being the average idiot again, jumped out of my seat and went for the note. Yes I admit to grabbing her by the arm, I did do that and it left a red mark on her arm from her trying to resist me. I was reaching around her stomach and because she is pregnant making sure I didn't touch her stomach. If I had, which I could have that is a possibility, I am sorry and I let her know that, it was entirely accidental.

Well after fighting with her for about a minute I finally got my act together and went to confront the teacher of the problem. The teacher, Ms. X, came out and everyone stopped. When I came out of the room first I noticed the pregnant girl was on the phone. Well then Ms.X and the girl was talking about what happened, the girl looked right at me and said, "If you ever touch me again I will knock you right in the jaw! I have been to jail before for beatin someone up and I am not afraid to go back!" The teacher just stood there allowing this student to treat me like this. A couple of minutes afterwards, the girl's boyfriend walks in. The girl explained to him all that happened and he looked at me and threatened me that if I ever lay a hand on her again, she can't defend herself but he will find someone who can, and he will make sure something is done to me. The teacher, stood there doing nothing. I was extremely upset that the teacher was allowing these people to treat me like this.

The girl and I were then brought to the other teacher's office, where the principal was at. We got our lectures and the girl told a complete lie saying I was hitting her in the stomach, and that she was coming over to give the note to me. She also claimed that she was not talking about Zack which I know is not true. She claimed that I gave her dirty looks, how could I? I was reading my book the whole time with headphones on!

The principal had to leave so the punishment was left in the teacher's hands. They were yelling at me which was burning my fuse even more. Also, they still were not doing anything about the girl or that boy threatening me, so that was the last drop in the bucket, and I exploded. I admit to losing my temper but I have been putting up with this kind of treatment all year so finally, it was time for me to be heard. I looked right at the girl and said, "Ok, I have a question for you, if you were going to give me the note, why did you continue to try to keep it from me?" her response was, "Because I had something to say!" so I shot back with, "Alright, I don't CARE about what you have to say, I wouldn't listen anyway! My job here is to keep up with my school work and remain busy!" She sneered at me and looked away, then I looked at the teachers. "I find it funny how whenever they are messing around with me, you guys don't do anything about it, but when they are complaining about me, you're quick to step up to the plate!" and they said, "you never come to us." I shoot back, "I came to you at the beginning of the year complaining about Brooke messing with me and NOTHING was done about it and so she continues to mess with me!" at that, I broke down, I started crying so I had to get out of there. I headed straight for the office door to just walk out, as I'm doing so I hear, "Don't you dare leave!" I ignored him. Ms.X then speaks up, "You need to go home." So I was kicked out for the day.

I of course complained to my mom about the whole matter and I guess I was removed today for I "needed to calm down" which is funny for my plan was to just go back to my book and ignore everything else around me. That or go to the quiet room which would have made ignoring everything around me a lot easier.

If they put me behind for today, that definitly will not help to "Calm me down."

thats a pretty hard situation,
she is pregnant and taking advantage of it, this girl sounds like merde!
Why is she pregnant so young anyway? i thought pregnant girls couldnt remain at the school once their belly started to show??

It's considered important that gals that are pregnant remain in school and get their education in the US. Teen pregancy is pretty common, though fortunately not the norm!
Trista, I think you should keep as far away as possible from that girl. If she ever accuses you of touching her again you could get in BIG trouble. Don't let her get you worked up over something petty, b/c in a way she won!

I am sorry you are having such a rough time at school and that people can be so obnoxious and immature. I am glad you have a place to vent, isn't TCS wonderful?! Keep up the hard work on reigning that temper in, it'll only make things harder. I really hope that things get better and school isn't so frikkin miserable for ya! We are here though!!

I went through continuous bullying and being messed with in school, so I know how you feel. Then I got it at home from my older sister. I never got a break. I let it affect my life in some very negative ways, which I regret to this day. (I am 47, and have been out of high school since 1977.) Sometimes you just have to not worry about people running their fat yaps, and learn to bite your tongue. Once you get out of school, you don't ever have to see those people again, and they really do not matter. I know this is often easier said than done, and that sometimes you just want to smack someone, but I found out the hard way, that it is just not worth it. The momentary satisfaction you might get out of it just not worth the rest of the crap that comes after. Besides, it really freaks people out when you just look at them like they are nothing when they mess with you. If they find messing with you ineffective, they will eventually leave you alone. Years later, I ran in to a girl I went to school with, that was part of the popular crowd, and she told me tht she had always admired they way I just did not care what people thought, and wished she could have been the same way. I was speechless!

I hope they don't hold you back because of that. It will get better next year. You have learned from your outburst and maybe that stupid girl has to. A baby will really change her life and make her mature very quickly once it arrives. Then maybe she will learn to let you be!

Originally Posted by Lil_Axl_Gurl

Yes I admit to grabbing her by the arm, I did do that and it left a red mark on her arm from her trying to resist me. I was reaching around her stomach and because she is pregnant making sure I didn't touch her stomach. If I had, which I could have that is a possibility, I am sorry and I let her know that, it was entirely accidental.

Well after fighting with her for about a minute I finally got my act together and went to confront the teacher of the problem.

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I understand that you were angry and understandably so, but I have to bring this up. You made it physical. The girl may be immature and mean, but she didn't touch you. I know that anger can be difficult to control, but you may have a harder time now pleading your case with your teacher because of this.
Its hard being a teenager, but it gets better. Try not to let people like her get to you. You are only hurting yourself.

People like her are not worth it. I was bullied in high school to because it was fun for my bullies who were bored. They don't realize the emotional damage they can cause because to them it really isn't a big deal. It is to you. Being held back will be a big deal to you too. Stay away from this toxic girl don't let her ruin your life, I got on with my life and you will be able to as well. Its such a small part of your life and things really will get better if you stick it out.

Good luck.

You are 18 my dear.... I've got 10 years on you...and trust me, none of this will matter in 10 yrs. Try to keep it in perspective... once you graduate you will never see these kids again! Maybe you stay close to 1 or 2, but that's it... good luck!