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Romeo is my other neutered male, he is the son of Baby my mother cat of the house. As soon as I brought Lilly home (she has been here for almost 8 weeks now) he was the most aggressive with her, and I had to really watch him. The other cats warmed up to her in a few days, Baby (mother cat) took longer 2 weeks and Romeo continued to be aggressive but not so much, mostly because I was scolding him about it. I have gone out of my way to love and cuddle Romey up as much as he will let me, he isn't a lap cat, so he won't feel jealous or left out. The aggressive behavior continues, but Lilly is bigger now and she has been holding her own with him, Baby now gets after him as she has adopted Lilly and is nursing her. My Vet says that she is one of those really maternal cats and that is fine with him. I figure the abscess in her paw was from Romeo because she bunny kicks him to get away. Of course with her so sick I had her in my room and was keeping an eye on her.
Since she has been feeling better and today she has been up and around for the first time since Saturday, he is really mean to her. He has been attacking her all day. I don't get it, he and she nurse at the same time. Yes, he is a big fat baby and still will nurse from his Mommy sometimes, and his sister Dimples does too. The Vet said the same thing that she is a very maternal cat and that if she is healthy she will continue to lactate until she is spayed. Does anyone have any suggestions about how to deal with him being so mean to her. I have tried to get her to stop nursing her babies and it isn't going to happen. I kept them apart when those kittens were 6 months for 3 weeks, no luck, I put rubbing alcohol on her nipples, no luck, I removed them every time I caught them, no luck. I gave up and they eventually slowed down to once a day, or a couple times a day. So any ideas?
Since she has been feeling better and today she has been up and around for the first time since Saturday, he is really mean to her. He has been attacking her all day. I don't get it, he and she nurse at the same time. Yes, he is a big fat baby and still will nurse from his Mommy sometimes, and his sister Dimples does too. The Vet said the same thing that she is a very maternal cat and that if she is healthy she will continue to lactate until she is spayed. Does anyone have any suggestions about how to deal with him being so mean to her. I have tried to get her to stop nursing her babies and it isn't going to happen. I kept them apart when those kittens were 6 months for 3 weeks, no luck, I put rubbing alcohol on her nipples, no luck, I removed them every time I caught them, no luck. I gave up and they eventually slowed down to once a day, or a couple times a day. So any ideas?