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Tomorrow is the day.....
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Oh hun, I'm so sorry you have to go through this. But, you know that she will be happy and healthy afterwards - you ARE doing the right thing.
Hugs to you!
Hugs to you!
Good for you for being so responsible, you're absolutely doing the right thing. Abby, you'll be in our thoughts and are going to do great!
Monica - what a hard decision you had to make there. We'll keep both you and Abby in our thoughts tomorrow. She will be just fine - but make sure to let us know how she's getting on
Hugs to you - I know it's tought
Hugs to you - I know it's tought
I am praying for the angel girl!
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Good luck Abby
Sending "safe spay vibes" out to Abby
Ahhh you'll be fine, I had to do the same thing with sissy but she had just had babies when I trapped her and she didn't need more, she was just under a year old, and I kept her and 3 of the 5 baby girls and she's happy as a lark, and I am to just for having them... I know its hard but your doing her a favor not putting her through all that. Hugs and vibes to you
I agree. I am very "pro-kitten", as a foster home. I have rescued 4 preggers kitties in 2 years. But how I wish more people would make the difficult choice that you have made. There just are not enough homes for all the kittens in this world. If more people would be willing to spay even if their kitty is preggers, the numbers would drop, and we would have more homes for the kitties here.
And remember, sometimes things go wrong during labor and delivery, so you are saving your cat from that. You are doing the right thing for you and your cat, and I am proud of you for making the difficult decision.
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Aww-thanks guys, you make it so much better, by responding to this, it is greatly appreciated. Im going to try and not think about it, all though I feel like crying right now-because I really cant believe that Im going to go thru with it.......
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Beckiboo said it perfectly. Something could go wrong during labor, & even if she was to have the kittens, would they find homes?
Good luck with the spay & try not to feel too guilty. You are doing the best thing for you, her, & the kittens...as sad as that may be.
Good luck with the spay & try not to feel too guilty. You are doing the best thing for you, her, & the kittens...as sad as that may be.
Good Luck to you and Abby! You're definitely making the right decision, for everybody
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Well I took her-I get to go get her tomorrow afternoon. I am trying to put the fact that she was PREGNANT in the back of my head, but its not working!! I feel horrible......I just keep having this horrible thought in my mind,and I cant stand it!!
Just remember that you are doing the right thing, and we're all here supporting you
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Thanks hun! I know and I appreciate everyones support, but its still so hard to think that I am allowing them to *abort* the helpless creatures.....uggh! I do know it is for the better and who knows if she would of been able to have a normal delivery but I guess its just still bothersome........Originally Posted by babyharley
Just remember that you are doing the right thing, and we're all here supporting you
Don't worry the surgery will go fine
You are doing the right thing. As posted before, what if she had a difficult delivery? She might lose them then as well. Your kitty will be happier and healthier once spayed, just keep that in mind. Don't worry about those precious babies they are still in the Lord's hands
he will take care of them.
You are doing the right thing. As posted before, what if she had a difficult delivery? She might lose them then as well. Your kitty will be happier and healthier once spayed, just keep that in mind. Don't worry about those precious babies they are still in the Lord's hands
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Ok-that brought tears to my eyes the way you said that.Originally Posted by chichismom
Don't worry the surgery will go fine
You are doing the right thing. As posted before, what if she had a difficult delivery? She might lose them then as well. Your kitty will be happier and healthier once spayed, just keep that in mind. Don't worry about those precious babies they are still in the Lord's handshe will take care of them.
