We got Mickey when he was around 6 months old from a rescue center. He was with the rescue center for around 3 months. Now he has been with us for nearly 2 1/2 years.
We currently have two other cats, and had Nikki, who lived to 21 and died a year ago. The three other cats are/were much more relaxed. Mickey has always been shy, but he still shows signs of fear in his home. He seems to get along well with the other two cats, one younger and one older. He really is fond of my 22 year old daughter, who is a vet tech and does clips his nails. He has never been as affectionate as our other cats, but I am concerned about the fear he still seems to show. Of course, he is treated well and never mistreated. We rarely even raise our voice to him.
He does have his friendly times on his terms when he wants to be friendly and be pet. I can live with that, but his fear makes me unconfortable. If we have company, he dissapears for hours, that isn't that unusual, but if one of my family and him cross paths, he will hurry the other way. My other cats will just pass by ignoring you or casually watch you. If you are sitting still when he walks in the room, he is alright, but make a move toward him and he runs.
Could he have been traumatized by something in his first few months? All of other cats have been a little uneasy at first and quickly adapted, but Mickey still seems uneasy. (He is a great guy otherwise) Today it bothered me the most because we had a delivery and I had to check to make sure nobody got outside accidently. It took me 4 hours to find him. I can trick to the other two to come, but this guy only comes on his terms.
We currently have two other cats, and had Nikki, who lived to 21 and died a year ago. The three other cats are/were much more relaxed. Mickey has always been shy, but he still shows signs of fear in his home. He seems to get along well with the other two cats, one younger and one older. He really is fond of my 22 year old daughter, who is a vet tech and does clips his nails. He has never been as affectionate as our other cats, but I am concerned about the fear he still seems to show. Of course, he is treated well and never mistreated. We rarely even raise our voice to him.
He does have his friendly times on his terms when he wants to be friendly and be pet. I can live with that, but his fear makes me unconfortable. If we have company, he dissapears for hours, that isn't that unusual, but if one of my family and him cross paths, he will hurry the other way. My other cats will just pass by ignoring you or casually watch you. If you are sitting still when he walks in the room, he is alright, but make a move toward him and he runs.
Could he have been traumatized by something in his first few months? All of other cats have been a little uneasy at first and quickly adapted, but Mickey still seems uneasy. (He is a great guy otherwise) Today it bothered me the most because we had a delivery and I had to check to make sure nobody got outside accidently. It took me 4 hours to find him. I can trick to the other two to come, but this guy only comes on his terms.