What kind/brand of food because i did some reading and found some interesting facts, that you shouldnt feed your cat food that the ing start with grain meals, should start with meat, but then the next problem is that you DO NOT want to feed your cat with food that has meat by-products because it containes eather dead, dying, decaying, or deased meat products and stuff that dont have liver cuz of the toxins.. sooo every brand i read has that stuff in it... where can i go to get the stuff that is good for my cat and kitten?