My boyfriend and I got two cats a couple months ago, one was a female and one an intact male. Romeo the male has always been slightly skiddish but he will always come up to me and let me pet him.
Well last week I had made Romeo an appt. to get neutered. That morning I found an old cardboard cat carrier, so I went in Romeo's room and picked him up,placed him in the carrier and it all became sort of blurry after that. It was a struggle getting him in the box, and when i finally got him in he broke through. I was stressed and poor Romeo was stressed, we finally got him in though and got him neutered. He has been home for a week now and he absolutly hates me. I never had a problem getting him in a carrier before but before I had used an actual cat carrier, I think the cardboard one is what freaked him out. You should see my hand, it looks aweful.
If I walk in his room he hides, even if he is already kind of hidden in the closet, if he sees me he runs under the tv stand. When my boyfriend goes in Romeo comes up to him like he use to do with me.
Lastnight my boyfriend let Romeo hangout in the living room while I was sleeping. Romeo was resting on my boyfriends lap. I then woke up and came into the living room and Romeo jumps off hgis lap and tries to run back to his room, he was blocked by a dog so he came back to my boyfriend and looked at me and started howling. So I just went back to bed.
I hate this, I dont want him to hate me becuase of one thing I did, and I was only trying to do the right thing.
I do try to get Romeo to like me agian, I feed him Tuna every morning and thats the only time he doesnt run and hide from me.
I feel so bad but he had to be neutered.
How can I make him my friend agian? Giving him tuna doesnt work.
Thanks!
Well last week I had made Romeo an appt. to get neutered. That morning I found an old cardboard cat carrier, so I went in Romeo's room and picked him up,placed him in the carrier and it all became sort of blurry after that. It was a struggle getting him in the box, and when i finally got him in he broke through. I was stressed and poor Romeo was stressed, we finally got him in though and got him neutered. He has been home for a week now and he absolutly hates me. I never had a problem getting him in a carrier before but before I had used an actual cat carrier, I think the cardboard one is what freaked him out. You should see my hand, it looks aweful.
If I walk in his room he hides, even if he is already kind of hidden in the closet, if he sees me he runs under the tv stand. When my boyfriend goes in Romeo comes up to him like he use to do with me.
Lastnight my boyfriend let Romeo hangout in the living room while I was sleeping. Romeo was resting on my boyfriends lap. I then woke up and came into the living room and Romeo jumps off hgis lap and tries to run back to his room, he was blocked by a dog so he came back to my boyfriend and looked at me and started howling. So I just went back to bed.
I hate this, I dont want him to hate me becuase of one thing I did, and I was only trying to do the right thing.
I do try to get Romeo to like me agian, I feed him Tuna every morning and thats the only time he doesnt run and hide from me.
I feel so bad but he had to be neutered.
How can I make him my friend agian? Giving him tuna doesnt work.
Thanks!