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vanessab25

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I'm saddened and confused by Nermal's behaviour lately. She's usually very loving and affectionate, but lately whenever I try giving her attention, she freaks out and runs away from me. I don't if it's because she has the siamese Lily with her, and has decided that she doesn't need us, though she does let my bf giver her attn without a problem. I don't know what I've done wrong.

 

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Originally Posted by VanessaB25

I'm saddened and confused by Nermal's behaviour lately. She's usually very loving and affectionate, but lately whenever I try giving her attention, she freaks out and runs away from me. I don't if it's because she has the siamese Lily with her, and has decided that she doesn't need us, though she does let my bf giver her attn without a problem. I don't know what I've done wrong.

How long has Lily been in your household? After we adopted Tripod, Oliver (who I had for 3 years as an only cat) became good friends with Tri in a few months, but It took him almost a year to forgive me.

Of course, as with any behavior changes, you do want to rule out a medical reason first.
 

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Luna got like that when B and i moved in together (with his 2 cats) and again when we got Whitey a few weeks ago.
She probably just feels uncomfortable getting love in front of other cats. Maybe shows a sign of weakness to new cats? Don't worry though, the day will come when absolutely needs love and will come to you!
 

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Are you using a different shampoo or soap? Anything like that can make a difference.
 
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