From a person who has been in a sort of same situation...I will only say Get out now.....It is up to you to make the change because you have to save yourself..
LOL we can not be that mean can weOriginally Posted by CatsRMyKids
I'll keep it simple. Get rid of the husband and keep penguin.
No, but we can keep an eye out in the behavior subject for someone who asks how to stop their cat from attacking their husband's crotch, and ask to borrow the catOriginally Posted by momof3rugratz
LOL we can not be that mean can we
Originally Posted by CatsRMyKids
I'll keep it simple. Get rid of the husband and keep penguin.
Pudge used to do that to my boyfriend every morning when she was a kitten. He learned almost zen-like control and immediately went to pee when he woke up after a few weeks of that.Originally Posted by Charmed654321
No, but we can keep an eye out in the behavior subject for someone who asks how to stop their cat from attacking their husband's crotch, and ask to borrow the cat
Agreed. Hubby sounds inconsiderate and selfish.Originally Posted by Trouts mom
I don't understand why if he loves you, he would make you give up something that you love..(unless of course it was dangerous to your wellbeing). I'm sorry, but I must agree with everyone here. I sincerely think that you need to really thin about this before making a decision. How can you give up sweet Penguin when you love him so much? How could your husband stand to see the pain you will go through to lose Penguin?
I don't get it.
I totally agree with you on this. When we bring an animal into our home it is our job to protect them and keep them safe by any means. Im sorry that you were forced to make such a tough decision and hope that all ends well. It is more than evident that you love Penguin very much, as do all of us who bring these beautiful beings into our hearts and homes, bottom line they become family members, a part of who we are as their unconditionally loving caregivers. The comment made by your husband that if Penguin was not found a home you would find him dead or gone made me really upset. To see that your husband does not respect something that you care deeply about shows his minimal or altogether lack of respect for you as his wife. As others have said in previous posts, your husband's outright threats towards Penguin are a possible indication of human abuse down the line. I truly hope this is not the case. Also, the comment that you made about how he growls at your husband and has never liked him, maybe Penguin knew exactly what kind of a person your husband is, they seem more times than not to have an inate sense about these things. And just as you made it a point to protect Penguin, he also made it a point to protect you out of love and trust. Please keep us informed on this and I will pray for you and PenguinOriginally Posted by lionessrampant
If your husband is making open statements about abusing or killing your cat, my suggestion to you is to seek therapy IMMEDIATELY. Statistically, people that are willing to harm animals are also willing to harm humans. Had this been me, the cat would be with me and the husband would have a restraining order and would be dealing with my divorce lawyer.)
So, can we borrow Pudge? LOLOriginally Posted by CommonOddity042
Pudge used to do that to my boyfriend every morning when she was a kitten. He learned almost zen-like control and immediately went to pee when he woke up after a few weeks of that.