A little over a month ago my boyfriend and I adopted two cats from a breeder, they were a breeding pair. Anyway when we got them the female was already pregnant, we didnt know till later. Now my boyfriend is in love with the male. I want to get him neutered now cause he sprays, he also is in his own room right now since he cant be with the female who is expecting. He cries in the room he is in and doesnt stop, it is so annoying, but I also feel bad for him cause he is all alone. However my boyfriend doesnt want to neuter him till after the mom has her kittens. He says he really wants a kitten from the male, and I told him he is getting one in this litter but he is worried something could go wrong, so he doesnt want to neuter him till after the babies come. Except I dont know when the babies are coming, could be another 2 weeks and I dont want to listen to him crying in the other room, its really loud. Im trying to convince my boyfriend to let me get the male neutered but he wont go for it. Im really trying, I know its best for him to be neutered and then he could roam with the other cats in the house, but I cant just get him neutered behind my boyfriends back, the male is his, the female is mine. Once the female has her babies,after about 8 weeks, im getting her spayed.
But how can I convince my boyfriend to let me get the male neutered? Also how can I get the male to stop crying in the other room? He has toys, a scratching post and food and water. I even put a feliway diffuser in there, and that has helped with his spraying in that room, but I really want to neuter him.He is driving me and my roomates crazy with his meowing....help!
But how can I convince my boyfriend to let me get the male neutered? Also how can I get the male to stop crying in the other room? He has toys, a scratching post and food and water. I even put a feliway diffuser in there, and that has helped with his spraying in that room, but I really want to neuter him.He is driving me and my roomates crazy with his meowing....help!