Its been a while

yasmine

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Its been a while since i last posted. On February 13th my mom was sent home on Hospice for her brain tumor. Was told that she'll have a month MAYBE two...well April 13th was 2 months but she is barely hangin there. I have cherished our time very dearly and i dont have one single regret. I felt the need to go see on Tuesday and when i left she started crying so i stayed with her for a lil while longer and i told her that it was okay to go that we'll be fine. She just smiled and said i'm at peace baby, just waiting on the good lord to take me.

That was the hardest thing i've ever had to say in my life but i hate sitting here watching her suffer. I have a great support group but i dont think anything can prepare us for losing your mother.

I wanted to say thanks to the ones that have sent me messages and to let you guys know where we are with my mother. Please pray that God gives her comfort and the family strength. Thanks!! love ya
 

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Hi! I'm so sorry for you and your Mother. I remember reading your last update that you got engaged with her there. That was wonderful.
You are a very strong person to be able to tell her you will be ok and put her mind a rest. I am so glad you have no regrets and have enjoyed your Mum's last times together.
You know we will all be here for you when your Mum passes over.

I hope you continue to stay so strong and be there for your Mother as long as she needs you.
I'll be thinking of you during this heart breaking time.
 

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Oh sweetie, I am so sorry!

Please know I have been thinking of you and your family, and I am sending peace, love and comfort your way!

Thanks for updating us, you have never left my mind and if you ever need someone to talk too I will always be here for you.

Take care of yourself and know I am here if you need me, if I can ever do anything for you just shout.

Lots of hugs

Eva xxx
 

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I don't know if it is any comfort, but at least you have had a chance to say how much you love each other.
Anne
 

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I am so sorry


I was in a very similar situation a couple of years ago with my dad.

I know how tough it is right now, and I'm glad you and your mom have had time to talk and spend time together.

Please take care
 

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I'm so sorry to hear about all of this - I am sending lots of prayers your way
 

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Originally Posted by Eva-loves-cats

Oh sweetie, I am so sorry!

Please know I have been thinking of you and your family, and I am sending peace, love and comfort your way!

Thanks for updating us, you have never left my mind and if you ever need someone to talk too I will always be here for you.

Take care of yourself and know I am here if you need me, if I can ever do anything for you just shout.

Lots of hugs

Eva xxx
That is exactly what I want to say, too. I'm so sorry your burden is so heavy right now. Give your Momma one kiss for me please. Hugs to you and your family!
 

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How terrilby heartbreaking for you and your family. Sending you many prayers at this difficult time.
 
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