not sure if this is the right forum (please move if its not..)
but I have posted here several times about my Bella, who has IBD and is developing some kidney problems as well (still minor). She has been off/on prednisolone and is currently on a raw food diet which she was doing great on until a couple days ago. Now she is vomiting again and the doctor isnt sure why -- she is stable and looks/acts fairly normal but still the vomiting for no apparant reason (and she is vomiting water for 2 days and has been receiving an IV under the skin, so no worries).. She has the best care at my natural vets office..
but here is my problem --- I have just hit a wall -- I have only had her for 1.5yrs and have spent thousands of $$ on her medical care --some of it b/c I am so over protective --and have probably taken 3 yrs off of my own life w/ worry and managing her health. I am a single woman who doesnt make much money and have become depressed by the never ending cycle of every 1-2 months we are back at the vets for fluids/new diet, etc. She has had bloodwork on average about every 2-3wks.
This is my first cat and I am sad to say that as much as I love her (and I am just addicted to my little baby girl), I think its ruining my own emotional health. I am seeing a counselor and from where the discussion is leading -- it may be my only solution is to find a good home for my girl.
I cant think of life without her, but if it comes down to her or me -- I dont have anything left to give and maybe someone with a stronger constitution can manage her long term health. Every day that goes by, I become more depressed and full of anxiety about her and about the medical bills.. and because I am single, its only me to do it all. My folks dont want her and are worrried for me, and think I should find her a good home.
BUT -- how do I find a home for a special needs kitty? She is only 8 and has lots of life left to live, esp. with someone that can really help -- I wonder sometimes if her up/down physical health isnt related to my emotional problems..
I live in Oregon -- does anyone have suggestions? I wont even THINK of giving her to someone who wont treat her well and love her -- she is the sweetest girl ever.
I cant believe I am even asking but I need to know my options.. thanks.. i knew you guys would understand..
but I have posted here several times about my Bella, who has IBD and is developing some kidney problems as well (still minor). She has been off/on prednisolone and is currently on a raw food diet which she was doing great on until a couple days ago. Now she is vomiting again and the doctor isnt sure why -- she is stable and looks/acts fairly normal but still the vomiting for no apparant reason (and she is vomiting water for 2 days and has been receiving an IV under the skin, so no worries).. She has the best care at my natural vets office..
but here is my problem --- I have just hit a wall -- I have only had her for 1.5yrs and have spent thousands of $$ on her medical care --some of it b/c I am so over protective --and have probably taken 3 yrs off of my own life w/ worry and managing her health. I am a single woman who doesnt make much money and have become depressed by the never ending cycle of every 1-2 months we are back at the vets for fluids/new diet, etc. She has had bloodwork on average about every 2-3wks.
This is my first cat and I am sad to say that as much as I love her (and I am just addicted to my little baby girl), I think its ruining my own emotional health. I am seeing a counselor and from where the discussion is leading -- it may be my only solution is to find a good home for my girl.
BUT -- how do I find a home for a special needs kitty? She is only 8 and has lots of life left to live, esp. with someone that can really help -- I wonder sometimes if her up/down physical health isnt related to my emotional problems..
I live in Oregon -- does anyone have suggestions? I wont even THINK of giving her to someone who wont treat her well and love her -- she is the sweetest girl ever.
I cant believe I am even asking but I need to know my options.. thanks.. i knew you guys would understand..