Hello all. First, background info. We have a 3 year old cat that we declawed (yes I admit it) when she was only about 5 months old. She's quite a nipper now and I can't help but think it's related to her declaw. We adopted a kitten a couple months ago (Spirit) and I love his temperament. I don't want to risk losing it by declawing him. Plus, as a recent thread here noted, his adoption contract has a no declaw "claws". Heh heh.
Anyways.... My husband is a loving man and is not forcing me to declaw Spirit. However his first reaction whenever Spirit claws at the quilt on the bed or at the couch is "time to get him declawed." It's a guilt trip I guess. He's not anti-declaw, but respects my desire NOT to declaw.... for now at least.
SO, in an effort to prevent marital spats and keep Spirit and his claws on daddy's good side, how do I train Spirit to ALWAYS use his scratching posts? He currently has three and I have a big cat tree ordered that will show up soon, but he still likes to claw the quilt and the couch on occassion. I'm concerned I'm not doing enough to reinforce good scratching behavior while he's still a baby (7 months old now). I've read some suggestions like playing with a shoelace on the scratcher, and he does use the scratchers, but also the couch on occassion.
Oh and by the way, I am using Softclaws, but he's a small kitten and it's been hard to get them to fit on his tiny little dewclaws. Plus you know they're shed off once in a while, and until mommy gets home or wakes up he's bare-clawed.
Thanks!
Anyways.... My husband is a loving man and is not forcing me to declaw Spirit. However his first reaction whenever Spirit claws at the quilt on the bed or at the couch is "time to get him declawed." It's a guilt trip I guess. He's not anti-declaw, but respects my desire NOT to declaw.... for now at least.
SO, in an effort to prevent marital spats and keep Spirit and his claws on daddy's good side, how do I train Spirit to ALWAYS use his scratching posts? He currently has three and I have a big cat tree ordered that will show up soon, but he still likes to claw the quilt and the couch on occassion. I'm concerned I'm not doing enough to reinforce good scratching behavior while he's still a baby (7 months old now). I've read some suggestions like playing with a shoelace on the scratcher, and he does use the scratchers, but also the couch on occassion.
Oh and by the way, I am using Softclaws, but he's a small kitten and it's been hard to get them to fit on his tiny little dewclaws. Plus you know they're shed off once in a while, and until mommy gets home or wakes up he's bare-clawed.