Hey everybody,
As many of you know I've been involved with a small TNR/rescue group for about a year-and-half (it's how I ended up with Pete and Claire!). Anyway, my role has been pretty limited - mostly socializing feral kittens, handling adoptions, some transport. Lately though, I've been feeling like I've become "too involved." It's not just the time factor, but the emotional one. I get so attached to the cats and worry about them so much. It's been keeping me up at night and distracting me from work and stuff at home. Don't get me wrong, it can be so rewarding and I completely support this group's efforts. I'm at a loss regarding what to do. I don't want to cut the ties because the group REALLY needs help. At the same time, I'm neglecting other things and that can't continue. Then there's the fact, that I really feel the need to somehow be involved in cat rescue/TNR because I believe in it so much. Maybe I just need a break, but this isn't the time with all the moms/kittens we have to care for. I should add that I just offered to foster a mom/kittens. What was I thinking?
Any ideas? Thanks for listening anyway.
As many of you know I've been involved with a small TNR/rescue group for about a year-and-half (it's how I ended up with Pete and Claire!). Anyway, my role has been pretty limited - mostly socializing feral kittens, handling adoptions, some transport. Lately though, I've been feeling like I've become "too involved." It's not just the time factor, but the emotional one. I get so attached to the cats and worry about them so much. It's been keeping me up at night and distracting me from work and stuff at home. Don't get me wrong, it can be so rewarding and I completely support this group's efforts. I'm at a loss regarding what to do. I don't want to cut the ties because the group REALLY needs help. At the same time, I'm neglecting other things and that can't continue. Then there's the fact, that I really feel the need to somehow be involved in cat rescue/TNR because I believe in it so much. Maybe I just need a break, but this isn't the time with all the moms/kittens we have to care for. I should add that I just offered to foster a mom/kittens. What was I thinking?
Any ideas? Thanks for listening anyway.