I have a question that is bugging our whole family and we really do not know the answer.We have the cutest almost 2 year old cat, Jakub, cross between Tonkinese and Ragamuffin. But we would like to get another kitten, since we made the mistake of not getting his brother when we got him. I would just like to know, whether it is a good idea to get a second kitten. The only problem is Jakub's personality, he is very vocal, he would just sit in front of my sisters' doors for hours and meow, he can do this for 2-3 hours until he gets tired and falls asleep, he is also very aggressive but only towards me, the person who takes 100% care of him. Nothing from the tips on this site reagrding calming the aggression did not work, I tell him "NO" and he gets angrier, I stop playing with him and it just make me an easier target. The only thing that stops him is a sniff of toothpaste believe it or not, the menthol smell he cannot stand. I would guess that at least the yelling is caused by being bored, but I am not sure. That is why I am here, I highly value your comments, suggestions, and expertise.
Do you thing it is a good idea to get a kitten, will this help with his behaviour? Will it be very difficult for them to get used to each other? Should I try to set up a play date with a friend's cat to see how he acts, will this get him more used to the fact that there is another cat? And the last thing, would a Bengal be a good choice?
Thank you so much, Eva
Do you thing it is a good idea to get a kitten, will this help with his behaviour? Will it be very difficult for them to get used to each other? Should I try to set up a play date with a friend's cat to see how he acts, will this get him more used to the fact that there is another cat? And the last thing, would a Bengal be a good choice?
Thank you so much, Eva