I honestly think I had a panic attack last night. I started crying so hard I began to hyperventilate! It was scary.
I have been very tired lately and haven't been sleeping much. Kevin is not very good at night and I am currently trying to get him from co-sleeping with me to being in his own bed. I am also still doing some breastfeeding with him. Last night he was so tired, but he just wouldn't settle in his own bed and my hubby has been pushing me to get him settled in his own room. I feel like a failure that I haven't been able to do it. Sometimes I can get him in his crib for part of the night, but he always ends up with me.
I have also had a lot of pain with this pregnancy (pelvic girdle pain and Symphysis Pubis Dysfunction). I have been given Tylonel 2's but don't like taking them - I have been in so much pain for the last few days I had to take 1 last night. So I felt guilty for taking one. I am in just as much, if not more pain today - I can barely walk and I have pain just shooting down my left leg.
When he wouldn't settle I just started crying. When I started crying I started thinking. The plan was not to have the babies this close together. Kevin was a fertility baby and the new one a suprise - a joyous suprise - but still one I was unprepared for. I began thinking that I couldn't handle having 2 babies so close together, that I was going to need more help then I know I am going to get. Then I started thinking that I am not prepared - the baby will be here in 6 weeks and I have nothing prepared adn Kevin is still way too clingy! That is when I started panicking!
I don't think my hubby realizes how much pain and stress I am feeling right now. I tried to tell him last night and all I got was a "I'm tired too" and a "it's not that bad" which was no help whatsoever! I am sure he was trying to be empathetic, but he just wasn't helping. Plus all of his comments lately about "when is the dusting going to get down, when is the laundry going to be put away". I am so tired - I work all day, I walk to and from the bus stop, I am in pain constantly and exhausted. When I get home, Kevin does not like to let me out of his sight (he cries and screams). When does he expect me to do all of this and still take care of myself and Kevin. Basically I came home last night and John ran out about 45 minutes later to run errands - I could barely walk when I got home, how was I supposed to take care of Kevin.
I don't know what to do. John doesn't seem to understand. I can't talk to my mother. My MIL is too sick to help. I am trying to keep everything inside, but I am getting more and more stressed everyday - I am constantly on the verge of tears (which irritates John as he just doesn't get it). If I am like this know how am I going to be when the baby is here. I feel that I am going t be a prime candidate for post partum depression.
Sorry for the long rant, but I honestly don't feel I have anyone to talk to!
I have been very tired lately and haven't been sleeping much. Kevin is not very good at night and I am currently trying to get him from co-sleeping with me to being in his own bed. I am also still doing some breastfeeding with him. Last night he was so tired, but he just wouldn't settle in his own bed and my hubby has been pushing me to get him settled in his own room. I feel like a failure that I haven't been able to do it. Sometimes I can get him in his crib for part of the night, but he always ends up with me.
I have also had a lot of pain with this pregnancy (pelvic girdle pain and Symphysis Pubis Dysfunction). I have been given Tylonel 2's but don't like taking them - I have been in so much pain for the last few days I had to take 1 last night. So I felt guilty for taking one. I am in just as much, if not more pain today - I can barely walk and I have pain just shooting down my left leg.
When he wouldn't settle I just started crying. When I started crying I started thinking. The plan was not to have the babies this close together. Kevin was a fertility baby and the new one a suprise - a joyous suprise - but still one I was unprepared for. I began thinking that I couldn't handle having 2 babies so close together, that I was going to need more help then I know I am going to get. Then I started thinking that I am not prepared - the baby will be here in 6 weeks and I have nothing prepared adn Kevin is still way too clingy! That is when I started panicking!
I don't think my hubby realizes how much pain and stress I am feeling right now. I tried to tell him last night and all I got was a "I'm tired too" and a "it's not that bad" which was no help whatsoever! I am sure he was trying to be empathetic, but he just wasn't helping. Plus all of his comments lately about "when is the dusting going to get down, when is the laundry going to be put away". I am so tired - I work all day, I walk to and from the bus stop, I am in pain constantly and exhausted. When I get home, Kevin does not like to let me out of his sight (he cries and screams). When does he expect me to do all of this and still take care of myself and Kevin. Basically I came home last night and John ran out about 45 minutes later to run errands - I could barely walk when I got home, how was I supposed to take care of Kevin.
I don't know what to do. John doesn't seem to understand. I can't talk to my mother. My MIL is too sick to help. I am trying to keep everything inside, but I am getting more and more stressed everyday - I am constantly on the verge of tears (which irritates John as he just doesn't get it). If I am like this know how am I going to be when the baby is here. I feel that I am going t be a prime candidate for post partum depression.
Sorry for the long rant, but I honestly don't feel I have anyone to talk to!