Ok well my cats name is Skittles and she is 10 or 11 months old. My husband found her and nursed her and she is his cat. She and him where always together, but unfortunatly my husband was taken to heaven. Well I have not been able to really get close to skittles and I want to take her to get fixed in 2 weeks. Every morning she escapes when the kids open the front door, but after 30 min I can open the door and she comes right back in. Been like this for months now except yesturday and today she will not come in. So tonight I just sat and tried for over an hour she got close to me and I could see her fur was filthy and it looked like her neck was really dirty. I did notice there was 2 cats around the house but no clue if they are male. My cat will not come in the darn house. Can it be because of the other cats. I noticed she is sitting about 2 feet from them. I do not and have not heard her Meow or call. I was told I would know the call and I would think she was hurt.... We have a vet apointment in 13 days I have to keep her inside. She doesn't like me and misses my husband I know that. Any clue what is wrong with her.