We took Festus to the vet today, and he basically said we'd have to make a decision about putting Festus down (since it's likely he'll attack again at some point) and that even meds aren't necessarily a "cure" for such aggressive behavior. He did refer us to a local animal behavioral specialist (I've already made an appointment for next week), but even that dr. said it's dangerous to live with unpredictably aggressive cats.
I just can't stop crying - I love my crazy cat so much. Other people who think Festus is mean and scary don't see the way he cuddles on my lap or sleeps/purrs by my head every night. Even though we're going to try everything we can, I feel like I've failed him somehow. I wish it was as simple as blaming the shredder or feral cats for his odd behavior, but the truth is that it's been going on/escalating for a long time. If only I could look into a crystal ball and see that he would never attack my daughter - if I could just know that, I would put up with anything he'd ever do to me.
Thanks for listening, and I sure would appreciate good thoughts sent our way . . . am hoping the behavioral specialist will have some answers.
Noelle
I just can't stop crying - I love my crazy cat so much. Other people who think Festus is mean and scary don't see the way he cuddles on my lap or sleeps/purrs by my head every night. Even though we're going to try everything we can, I feel like I've failed him somehow. I wish it was as simple as blaming the shredder or feral cats for his odd behavior, but the truth is that it's been going on/escalating for a long time. If only I could look into a crystal ball and see that he would never attack my daughter - if I could just know that, I would put up with anything he'd ever do to me.
Thanks for listening, and I sure would appreciate good thoughts sent our way . . . am hoping the behavioral specialist will have some answers.
Noelle