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radio question of the day: 03/21/06

post #1 of 24
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What have you been more in life, the dumper or the dumpee??
post #2 of 24
The dumper.....Its really hard to break up though
post #3 of 24
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Originally Posted by Phenomsmom
The dumper.....Its really hard to break up though
Especially when he's a nice guy huh?
post #4 of 24
The dumpee........once on my birthday
post #5 of 24
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Originally Posted by Arlyn
The dumpee........once on my birthday
Well, now, that was just mean. I hope you gave it to him good!
post #6 of 24
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Originally Posted by kittylover4ever
Especially when he's a nice guy huh?
HeeHee!! Yes but I really wouldn't know what it is like to date a nice guy (besides Lee) and have to break up with them!! They always cheat on me!
post #7 of 24
Dumper - the worst was breaking up with my BF a year ago last year, we had been together for 5 years

But then I started dating John about a month later
post #8 of 24
Dumpee...
post #9 of 24
There was much more to it than a simple dumping, I'll just say that 4 people were involved, and two of us ended up very hurt (emotionally).
post #10 of 24
I've always beent he dumper
post #11 of 24
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Originally Posted by Arlyn
There was much more to it than a simple dumping, I'll just say that 4 people were involved, and two of us ended up very hurt (emotionally).

Awww
post #12 of 24
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Originally Posted by kittylover4ever
the dumpee??
I was....... .....But not by Gema!........
post #13 of 24
Dumpee for me!
post #14 of 24
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Originally Posted by menagerie mama
Dumpee for me!
I went through phases, with the later part of my life being the dumper! I was a really mean teenager, well to the guys I dated anyway, but most deserved it !!
post #15 of 24
Neither! DH was my first boyfriend. I just didn't see a point in dating most of the time. I think I was too busy picking up the pieces of my friends heartbreaks. I guess that kind of makes me....hmmm....not a dumpee's dumpee.....call it more like an emotional janitor!
post #16 of 24
I've always been the dumper
post #17 of 24
As much as I hate to admit it, I have been the *dumper*.
post #18 of 24
Aww...this one doesn't apply to me....I have never had a bf.
post #19 of 24
I'm thinking it was about even. I've had my heart broken a few times and broken a few hearts myself. I really hated dumping this one guy, he was really sweet, but seriously got on my nerves and i got to the point that I couldn't stand him anymore. So that was tough because he hadn't been a jerk or anything. It's easy to dump a guy when he does nothing but make you mad! It's like "Oh please just be an ass, just once, so this is easier!" LOL!
Any time I was dumped, I was usually glad for it later. Like the guys who dumped me in my teens because I wouldn't have sex with them. Way better off without them! One dumped me, and a few months later I hear that his new girlfriend is pregnant. Way to go dumbass! He married her and they have another kid, and his mom (his mom tried to get us back together a few times, she loves me) told me he was pretty miserable. Last time I saw him, he looked like it, not that he spoke to me, and not that I care! But he should have waited until he found the right person and was ready for the responsiblities that come with it!

I can't look back on any relationship I've had before my hubby and think "I wish we'd worked it out..." because I was always glad it ended when I looked back later.

Amber
post #20 of 24
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Originally Posted by Arlyn
There was much more to it than a simple dumping, I'll just say that 4 people were involved, and two of us ended up very hurt (emotionally).


Reminds me of a situation I was in when I became dumpee

I am dumper except for the above situation
post #21 of 24
I've had (other than mark) 2 serious relationships, both ended in tears - or should I say hysterics? I was the dumper the first time, and the dumpee the second time. Although after this he wanted me back and I was having none of it, so I think that technically makes me the dumper.
All my other 'relationships' I have beem the dumper. I was just fooling around until the right person came along...
post #22 of 24
My last relationship we both knew it was over so i wasn't either. But i'm normally the dumper.
post #23 of 24
I am the dumper but most of the time it's because whatever bf I was with did something so awful that I had too, so it's not like I'm evil. And I usually get the brunt of emotional problems because of the awful thing whoever did to me whenever.
post #24 of 24
I have always been the dumpee
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