radio question of the day: 03/21/06

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Originally Posted by Phenomsmom

The dumper.....Its really hard to break up though
Especially when he's a nice guy huh?
 
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Originally Posted by Arlyn

The dumpee........once on my birthday
Well, now, that was just mean. I hope you gave it to him good!
 

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Originally Posted by kittylover4ever

Especially when he's a nice guy huh?
HeeHee!! Yes but I really wouldn't know what it is like to date a nice guy (besides Lee) and have to break up with them!! They always cheat on me!
 

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Dumper - the worst was breaking up with my BF a year ago last year, we had been together for 5 years


But then I started dating John about a month later
 

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There was much more to it than a simple dumping, I'll just say that 4 people were involved, and two of us ended up very hurt (emotionally).
 
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Originally Posted by Arlyn

There was much more to it than a simple dumping, I'll just say that 4 people were involved, and two of us ended up very hurt (emotionally).
Awww
 

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Originally Posted by menagerie mama

Dumpee for me!
I went through phases, with the later part of my life being the dumper! I was a really mean teenager, well to the guys I dated anyway, but most deserved it
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Neither! DH was my first boyfriend. I just didn't see a point in dating most of the time. I think I was too busy picking up the pieces of my friends heartbreaks. I guess that kind of makes me....hmmm....not a dumpee's dumpee.....call it more like an emotional janitor!
 

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I'm thinking it was about even. I've had my heart broken a few times and broken a few hearts myself. I really hated dumping this one guy, he was really sweet, but seriously got on my nerves and i got to the point that I couldn't stand him anymore. So that was tough because he hadn't been a jerk or anything. It's easy to dump a guy when he does nothing but make you mad! It's like "Oh please just be an ass, just once, so this is easier!" LOL!
Any time I was dumped, I was usually glad for it later. Like the guys who dumped me in my teens because I wouldn't have sex with them. Way better off without them! One dumped me, and a few months later I hear that his new girlfriend is pregnant. Way to go dumbass! He married her and they have another kid, and his mom (his mom tried to get us back together a few times, she loves me) told me he was pretty miserable. Last time I saw him, he looked like it, not that he spoke to me, and not that I care! But he should have waited until he found the right person and was ready for the responsiblities that come with it!

I can't look back on any relationship I've had before my hubby and think "I wish we'd worked it out..." because I was always glad it ended when I looked back later.

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Originally Posted by Arlyn

There was much more to it than a simple dumping, I'll just say that 4 people were involved, and two of us ended up very hurt (emotionally).


Reminds me of a situation I was in when I became dumpee


I am dumper except for the above situation
 
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