Has anyone ever had to back out of an auction that they have won?
I won something, and am now thinking of backing out of it. The emailing back and forth is becoming too much of a hassle, and the guy says he won't be able to ship out next week because he lives in a rural area. Well, he lives in Tuscon, AZ, and I live in Gilbert, which is 2 hours away. I asked about meeting half way, and he said no because it would cost too much for him to drive all the way out. Another thing is with the emails: he has admitted that in a few emails, it is his wife answering the emails and not him. He appologized for not getting back to me sooner because 'they have 3 kids and sometimes they miss details' (or something to that level) I know they have post offices out there, and I just don't see why it would take so long to ship it out. Also, he is charging $20.00 instead of $10.00 for priority mail. I checked on USPS & to ship a 10 lb package from my zip to his, it only cost $10.00 I had emailed him that, and whoever it was, said they'd be willing to knock it down to $15.00, instead of $20.00 I'm guessing that was his wife?
The thing is, is I don't know if I trust this guy now. The guy has one negative feedback due to shipping issues. I just don't buy it how he cannot ship til next Monday..... I can just as easily go to the store and get the item for the same price. Now, I know this will leave me negative feedback, but I really don't care. Plus, I have a home equity payment that is due on Sunday and a HOA bill, due. What would you do? And, if you do back out, how do I explain it to him politely? I was just goint to say "Sorry, but I am going to have to back out of your auction. This is becoming to much of a hassle for me. I won't leave feedback against you." Would that be good enough?
I won something, and am now thinking of backing out of it. The emailing back and forth is becoming too much of a hassle, and the guy says he won't be able to ship out next week because he lives in a rural area. Well, he lives in Tuscon, AZ, and I live in Gilbert, which is 2 hours away. I asked about meeting half way, and he said no because it would cost too much for him to drive all the way out. Another thing is with the emails: he has admitted that in a few emails, it is his wife answering the emails and not him. He appologized for not getting back to me sooner because 'they have 3 kids and sometimes they miss details' (or something to that level) I know they have post offices out there, and I just don't see why it would take so long to ship it out. Also, he is charging $20.00 instead of $10.00 for priority mail. I checked on USPS & to ship a 10 lb package from my zip to his, it only cost $10.00 I had emailed him that, and whoever it was, said they'd be willing to knock it down to $15.00, instead of $20.00 I'm guessing that was his wife?
The thing is, is I don't know if I trust this guy now. The guy has one negative feedback due to shipping issues. I just don't buy it how he cannot ship til next Monday..... I can just as easily go to the store and get the item for the same price. Now, I know this will leave me negative feedback, but I really don't care. Plus, I have a home equity payment that is due on Sunday and a HOA bill, due. What would you do? And, if you do back out, how do I explain it to him politely? I was just goint to say "Sorry, but I am going to have to back out of your auction. This is becoming to much of a hassle for me. I won't leave feedback against you." Would that be good enough?