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What would be worse?

post #1 of 29
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I went on a date last night!

Before hand I was talking to my friends about all the things that could go wrong and it got me wondering, what would be worse, if you got there and didnt like the guy anymore or if you got there and he didnt like you!

So what would be worse? Place your votes NOW!
post #2 of 29
I don't think there is anything worse than unrequited love!
post #3 of 29
I voted it would be worse if they didnt like me!

I mean who can not like me?? im so cute and adorable
post #4 of 29
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But then you could just stare at his pretty face all nigh! lol!

But if you didnt like him, you'd be spending the evening trying to think of a good excuse to bail!
post #5 of 29
Gotta tell ya, both would stink!
post #6 of 29
I think it would be worse if they weren't into me.
post #7 of 29
So how'd the date go? Did he turn up in clogs?
post #8 of 29
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Originally Posted by pushylady
So how'd the date go? Did he turn up in clogs?
Yeah - how'd the date go???
post #9 of 29
I don't know...
I find myself going out with guys that I don't like all that much, just because i don't want to deal with the awkwardness of telling them I'm not interested. oh man.. i could tell storrriiieeess..

but it SUCKS when someone doesn't return my affections.
post #10 of 29
Been there on the "I didn't like him" scenario. That really sucked. I couldn't wait to get out of there, and I swear there was no excuse in the world that worked... Talk about awkward! He was quite sure there was some magical future for us and I couldn't hardly stand to hold the conversation. It was really hard to try to be nice about it when he didn't take even the not-so-subtle hints!
post #11 of 29
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Originally Posted by pushylady
So how'd the date go? Did he turn up in clogs?
lol!

No, luckily he didn't!

I think it went well, he was as cute as i remembered luckily!
post #12 of 29
Hrmn... I dunno... generally if I met a guy when I was drunk, I'd either forgotten him, or was drunk the second time I met him too.... so pass! Thank god I seem to have settled down now.
post #13 of 29
I think it would be worse if he didn't like me - I could put up with one date where I didn't like him.
post #14 of 29
They are both really bad feelings to experience, but I can handle both. If it's not there... it's not there.
post #15 of 29
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Originally Posted by Hydroaxe
They are both really bad feelings to experience, but I can handle both. If it's not there... it's not there.
oo you big macho man, you
post #16 of 29
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Originally Posted by LilleKat
oo you big macho man, you
Oh is that how that sounds? I thought being macho would be never having to accept rejection. -don't sound so macho now do I?
post #17 of 29
uhm... lemme think on that one... it's maybe a bit early for me still!
post #18 of 29


Machiousnee
post #19 of 29
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Originally Posted by fwan


Machiousnee
What is "Machiousnee" Fwan?
post #20 of 29
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Originally Posted by Hydroaxe
What is "Machiousnee" Fwan?
Um.. i just woke up i was supposed to write
machiousness! as in (machioness)
post #21 of 29
I couldn't pick. Both would be pretty bad. I don't like hurting people's feelings and let's just say that the second option has been haunting me lately
post #22 of 29
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Originally Posted by marie-p
let's just say that the second option has been haunting me lately


I think it would be worse if you didnt like them as if they didnt like you hopefully they would be too polite to make a big deal of it and you could just get through the evening.
post #23 of 29
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Originally Posted by maverick_kitten


I think it would be worse if you didnt like them as if they didnt like you hopefully they would be too polite to make a big deal of it and you could just get through the evening.
they're both pretty bad options

but I think not knowing is worst. At least with a date together you can usually find out and if it doesn't work out you can get over it. Until then, it's all guessing and obsessing
post #24 of 29
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Originally Posted by maverick_kitten
lol!
I think it went well, he was as cute as i remembered luckily!
Glad it went well!
post #25 of 29
It's definitely worse to not like them. It becomes really awkward for me while I try to figure out how to handle it. If they don't like me than it's their loss and they can kiss my booty while I'm walking out the door.
post #26 of 29
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Originally Posted by katspixiedust
It's definitely worse to not like them. It becomes really awkward for me while I try to figure out how to handle it. If they don't like me than it's their loss and they can kiss my booty while I'm walking out the door.
LMAO!!

I hate akward situations. The worst is when someone tries to kiss you but you dont feel the same so you can either

a) turn your head
b) air kiss their cheek loudly 'mwahh'
c) push their forhead with your hand, creating a barrier
d) duck!
post #27 of 29
thats so true, you should have added in the poll depends on the situation
post #28 of 29
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Originally Posted by jane_vernon
I don't think there is anything worse than unrequited love!
Yeah,i agree,I Wasted 10 years to that
post #29 of 29
When I was dating... (it was a looooong time ago, LOL) I was devastated when a guy would break up with me for no reason at all. We day we are fine, and the next he would break up.
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