I quit my job today...

Yeah, my boss finally found out how much time I spent on TCS at work

No, I finally bit the bullet and decided to be mature and responsible and admit to my boss that after nearly five years my heart just wasn't in it anymore, and it was time to go. He was really stunned, but told me he really respected the fact that I was so honest with him, and was really happy about the way I'd gone about it.

It was so hard, I had written him a formal letter, and I sat there crying and sobbing and could barely get the words out.

I've never had such a good job, or such an amazing boss. He is more than a boss, he is my friend and mentor, and I will miss him incredibly. This was the hardest decision I have had to make in five years. Including my divorce.

I gave him six weeks notice and will finish up the day before Good Friday. He said we'll have to have a huge party and I'm looking forward to that with mixed feelings.

So, I wonder what the wide world will provide for me next? I resigned without another position to go to, but I think that it won't be too hard to secure something by mid-April. Ahhhh, it's a huge relief, but I'm terribly sad, too.

aah what a brave thing for you to have done. Its better getting out than ending up resenting the job. And as one door closes....
I'm sure you will get something very soon.
What was it you do at your job?

I was the practice manager for a gastroenterologist, at a private hospital just near where I live.

And I realised, too, that it's not only him I'll miss, but our anaesthetists, and all of our wonderful patients who I have such a relationship with.

My jaw dropped for a second when you said it was because of TCS. What does a practice manager do?

Sarah, what was it that made you leave a job you sound like you loved? It takes alot of courage to leave one job without having another lined up.

A practice manager basically runs the medical practice. I was like receptionist, secretary, P.A. and executive assistant all rolled into one!

Susie, I decided to leave because the job was no longer a challenge, I was becoming easily distracted and finding it difficult to concentrate, and my work was starting to slip. I'd felt that way for months, and tried many things to get the old spark back, but nothing worked. I just had to admit my time was up and it was time to go.

Originally Posted by KitEKats4Eva!

A practice manager basically runs the medical practice. I was like receptionist, secretary, P.A. and executive assistant all rolled into one!

Susie, I decided to leave because the job was no longer a challenge, I was becoming easily distracted and finding it difficult to concentrate, and my work was starting to slip. I'd felt that way for months, and tried many things to get the old spark back, but nothing worked. I just had to admit my time was up and it was time to go.

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Well, like I said, good for you for having the courage........I hope you find something real soon!

Good for you for doing what was best even though it was really hard. we are all here for you to encourage you in the job hunt! Happy Hunting!

Wow! I wish you the best in job searcing! I think it depends which part of the country you live in for a new job (assuming your in the states...). Then again, since you're in the health care field, really that's one of the fields to be in now!

<- For Luck!

Wow, I hope it all works out for you Sarah. That is a brave move, but you know you don't want to end up in a rut and come to resent your job. I'm sure with your experience you'll get another job lined up no worries.
But, umm, weren't you like 6 months away from getting a pair of Blahniks from your boss?

Sounds like you are ready for a new challenge! Good luck with the job hunting.

I know the feeling you were experiencing with your job. I bet you feel better today!! Good luck in finding that new more challenging position.

The very best of luck to you Sarah! I woke up one morning, went into work and after nearly a year of my job making me miserable I just put my desk plant in a box, quit, wished everyone well and walked out! I got about halfway down the road before I realised how scary it was!

It was the best move I ever made though, I honestly believe that if your heart tells you to do something then you can rarely go wrong following it. Starting again means you can consider every option, for me I realised I wanted to work for myself doing something completely different, but for you it might be something else entirely. I hope whatever you choose it works out well though, even though I don't know you I am sure you did the right thing.

Good for you for being so honest about it! I hope you find something that will challenge you again - for a while at least

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But, umm, weren't you like 6 months away from getting a pair of Blahniks from your boss?

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LOL! Yep - I mentioned that today, we had a laugh and he said I get a free invite to the Christmas party....hehehe

It sounds like you'll be parting on the best of terms, and remain friends with the people there. That's a great situation to have, it never pays to burn bridges, and you know you'll be getting a great reference from him.

My dad has worked for the consulate for 30 years now, Germany has made it miserable he is only sad about leaving because of the good pay!

It takes courage and honesty with yourself to face up to the need for a new job. Good luck - I am sure you will find something that will stretch and challenge you.

and lots of luck in the new endevour

Best of luck to you! Sounds as if you are a very honorable person

I'm sure you'll have no problem finding a great position