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How do you know if someone likes you?

post #1 of 13
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Its crazy question of the day!

How do you know for SURE that the other person likes you?

Make examples, and share your own experiences

note: tomorrow will be "how do you know that someone doesnt like you?"
post #2 of 13
Just take notice about how they act around you. A lot of eye contact probably means that they're interested. Any joking or slight touching may mean that too. It should be fairly easy to tell if they like you.
post #3 of 13
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Yes well it was... then it changed so now im confused
post #4 of 13
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Originally Posted by fwan
Yes well it was... then it changed so now im confused


Make a move, or just ask.
post #5 of 13
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Originally Posted by fwan
How do you know for SURE that the other person likes you?
I've always waited until the first kiss. But its got to be a semi-sober to sober kiss. Drunk kisses don't count because they can always be denied.

Otherwise I've never learn to count on if he flirts, winks, whatever. Too many "I just see you as a friend..." happened for me
post #6 of 13
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Yeah.. well next time i planned to drink something so i could have the excuse to make the first move
post #7 of 13
That does sound confusing! Hasn't this been going on for awhile, too?

Ok. Would you think it to be a HUGE deal if someone asked you if they liked you, even if you didn't like them and you told them so? Would you think about it for the rest of your life and think that they're really weird?? No, right? Even if you didn't like them, you would be flattered....right?

So that's what they would think!!

Go ahead, take a chance, just ASK, just do it! Don't think about it, don't hesitate. Trust me, it does work.
Good luck!
post #8 of 13
or just walk up to him and say "How you doin?"

Always worked for me, I'm sure that's what got Tara.
post #9 of 13
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Originally Posted by DRIVEN
or just walk up to him and say "How you doin?"

Always worked for me, I'm sure that's what got Tara.

Haha oh my goodness please!! Jason definatly turned on the charm though. I knew Jay liked me just cause he always stared, or winked at me everytime I looked at him
post #10 of 13
I was having this same issue a few weeks ago with this guy. Eventually I couldn't take it anymore so I literally said, "I'm just going to be completely honest with you...I don't know if you've noticed this, but I like you." And there it was. It shocked him, but the response I got was, "I definitely like you too." So like someone else said, if you're really unsure and it's driving you nuts...just flat out tell him you like him, or ask if he likes you! You can do it girly!
post #11 of 13
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Originally Posted by katspixiedust
I was having this same issue a few weeks ago with this guy. Eventually I couldn't take it anymore so I literally said, "I'm just going to be completely honest with you...I don't know if you've noticed this, but I like you." And there it was. It shocked him, but the response I got was, "I definitely like you too." So like someone else said, if you're really unsure and it's driving you nuts...just flat out tell him you like him, or ask if he likes you! You can do it girly!
Oh my god, hahaha i think i will do that next time, actually last time i saw him he acted so strange... then i drove (nicky shes on this site) nuts about the topic, a few days later i got over it...

Then i gave up and called him a few days ago.. and for somereason we got onto the topic about kids and when i told him i didnt want any for a few more years he sounded so happy and relieved.

He called me this evening, but he has no time to see me since he got another job..


Kat how did you ask him over the phone? or in person?
post #12 of 13
Fran!!

Just get him drunk and pounce! lol

seriously. just txt him if your shy and say, so are we just friends?

or make a joke about kissing him next time you see him when your talking on the phone and see his reaction!
post #13 of 13
Try and catch them staring/blushing at you!

Or you could just off handly mention that you have a crush on someone and then see what thier reaction is.

Of course, the way I found out is that I told my friend that I thought José was cute and he went over and told José...followed by a day of blushing/trying to not have the other person catch us staring at the other and then the next he asked me to sit at lunch with him.
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