Introduction of New Cat to 3 yr old male cat

abigbadzebra

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First of all, hello to everyone. I registered so I could ask some questions about a situation I have here. Thank you in advance for those that respond. I'll get right to it.

My wife and I have been thinking of getting another cat. We currently have a 3.5 yr old male tabby. He is not neutered, but is a strictly indoor cat except the ocassional roll-around on the back porch (3rd story apartment building). He had his shots when he was younger and tested for feline diseases. He is all checked out. He is not declawed. He is an awesome cat though. He does not spray (even when we have had other cats in the house for visits). I have seen him spray once which was outside when my dad let him out when I lived in the country. He sprayed a bush. He is well behaved (aside from using the couches as a scratching post) and very loving. he is actually quite funny and has some wierd habits.

Anyway, we have been thinking of getting another cat. My biggest worry is that my existing cat may begin to spray. He has never been exposed to other cats long term. He's spent a few days with another cat in another house and in our house without spraying though. Dogs have even been in our house for several days while we babysat. I guess this could all be resolved by getting him neutered but he's been so good.. I just don't feel he deserves it
I've also heard that getting a cat neutered can change their mood. He has (IMO) a very good personality and I don't want to see that go. Is this true?

I'm looking for any thoughts on the subject. Would it be better to get a male that is neutered or a female that is spayed for a partner? Does it matter? We were looking at 6-8 month old kittens. I have read all kinds of advice on how to actually introduce them, so I have that covered. I suppose if we commit to this and he does begin to spray we would have to get him neutered. As you can tell, I'm trying to avoid that. Anyone have any experiences with cats that don't spray? Any reason why he wouldn't? I know there are alot of questions here but I appreciate any help.

Here are some pictures of my kitty.









Thank you!

Kirk
 

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Hi, I can't answer about the spraying thing, someone else will, but I will get into another point - I know it's really hard for you (as a man) to consider neutering him, but from his perspective, he has none of the preconceived human ideas about such a procedure, won't see it at all the way you do, or feel sorry for himself, etc. He will be anesthetized, it is a very short procedure, with any analgesia he might need afterward (though ours didn't need any, nor did they seem to have any idea of what exactly had happened beyond the fact they were at the vet's, and then came home where they belonged. I don't think cats joke about such things in the locker room, setting themselves up to think of it all as some horrible event in their lives... and giving that second cat a decent home when who knows where he/she would end up otherwise is such a terrific thing to do. I think you could have some trouble bringing them together as things stand now, so please reconsider, without projecting human ideas onto your cat.
 

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Originally Posted by ABigBadZebra

First of all, hello to everyone. I registered so I could ask some questions about a situation I have here. Thank you in advance for those that respond. I'll get right to it.

My wife and I have been thinking of getting another cat. We currently have a 3.5 yr old male tabby. He is not neutered, but is a strictly indoor cat except the ocassional roll-around on the back porch (3rd story apartment building). He had his shots when he was younger and tested for feline diseases. He is all checked out. He is not declawed. He is an awesome cat though. He does not spray (even when we have had other cats in the house for visits). I have seen him spray once which was outside when my dad let him out when I lived in the country. He sprayed a bush. He is well behaved (aside from using the couches as a scratching post) and very loving. he is actually quite funny and has some wierd habits.

Anyway, we have been thinking of getting another cat. My biggest worry is that my existing cat may begin to spray. He has never been exposed to other cats long term. He's spent a few days with another cat in another house and in our house without spraying though. Dogs have even been in our house for several days while we babysat. I guess this could all be resolved by getting him neutered but he's been so good.. I just don't feel he deserves it
I've also heard that getting a cat neutered can change their mood. He has (IMO) a very good personality and I don't want to see that go. Is this true?

I'm looking for any thoughts on the subject. Would it be better to get a male that is neutered or a female that is spayed for a partner? Does it matter? We were looking at 6-8 month old kittens. I have read all kinds of advice on how to actually introduce them, so I have that covered. I suppose if we commit to this and he does begin to spray we would have to get him neutered. As you can tell, I'm trying to avoid that. Anyone have any experiences with cats that don't spray? Any reason why he wouldn't? I know there are alot of questions here but I appreciate any help.

Here are some pictures of my kitty.









Thank you!

Kirk
First of all, your cat is gorgeous!!
I am dealing with another problem right now, BUT I will tell you this: neutering does not always keep a cat from spraying. Ours is a housecat, too, but goes in our backyard once in a while. He was neutered as a kitten, turned 7 yrs. old last summer, & began spraying (outside only thank God) -- he knew other cats had been in HIS yard!
May I suggest that you neuter your cat, and then try a female kitten. We were toying with that idea, too, but now our dear cat is sick

Good luck
 
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