New and in mourning

kittybosanta

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In August 2003 a beautiful, blue stray appeared smack in the middle of my front doorstep. She was hungry and when I opened the door to bring out some food and water she walked in like she was home. I took Carmen in and eventually to the vet and learned Carmen was between 12-14 months and pregnant. Voodoo (solid black) and Gateway (tuxedo) were born in October. We kept the family together.

All were spayed/neutered, treated regularly by the vet, and up to date on shots. The one thing that was not addressed was testing for FeLV/HIV. This weekend, we lost Gateway to FeLV. It was all so sudden - he became symptomatic just last week! He was bigger and stronger than either Voodoo and Carmen and much more docile - he was the last one I thought anything would happen to! I wish I knew then what I now know about these diseases - I would have addressed this with the vet from the get go, especially with Carmen having been a stray. But you don't think of complexities when you do something simple like taking in a stray cat.

When Gateway became sick last week, I had posted some inquiries on the Health and Wellness forum. The responses were helpful as they were comforting when I posted the eventual loss of my beloved Gateway.

In the aftermath of Gateway's loss, I am a wiser and more knowledgeable cat lover/owner and glad to be a member of the catsite.com community. I am also loving my Carmen and Voodoo more so than usual and hoping when they get tested this week, their prognosis will be better.
 

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Very sorry on the loss of Gateway. Best of luck with the testing on Carmen and Voodoo...Sue
 

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So sorry of yout loss of Gateway! He is at the Rainbow Bridge waiting to see you again!

Welcome to TCS! Hope you learn alot and receive comfort from all here.
 

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I am so sorry to hear about Gateway. I too a couple of years ago took in two wonderful strays who unknown to us at the time were FIV positive. They have both since passed and I now know so much more about FIV as well. I hope all test come out negative.


Welcome to the site!!!
 

stormy

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Hello
It's nice to meet you!
I am very sorry for your loss.


 

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Welcome. I'm sorry that such sad circumstances led you to the site, but we are happy to have you .
 

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I am so sorry that sadness brought you to us, but I have seen your thread about Gateway in the bridge forum. I am so sorry that you lost your darling boy but thankfully you are more the wiser now. Its never easy to loose a loved one. Please know we are all here for you during this time of sadness... it will get easier



Welcome to TCS



Please send me or another mentor a message if you need any help at all in
the forums.

welcome again from me and my boys
 

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Hello and welcome to TCS!


I'm so sorry to hear of your loss **hugs**
 

h~chan

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Welcome to TCS!

I'm sorry to hear about Gateway.. glad you joined, though.


See you around the forums!
 
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