Hello everyone,
My name is Jennifer and I am 48, married with 13 cats.
We live in the country. All my cats except 1 were a rescue. The other were pregnant strays, or just strays and a couple ferals. All are fixed now.
My pride and joy is Star-kitty. I tell her she is my star feral kitty. I have been taking care of her for 16 months. It took her a year to come in the house. She has been coming in through a kitty window for about 3 months now. No one has ever touched her but me. All the other cats are tame. Star is just a little different due to whatever she had been through in her life. I am not sure of her age but probably around 2 or maybe even 3.
She lets me hold her now and even occasionally purrs. To pick her up, she has to be either eating or on her bed. The table over her bed is glass so I look at her through the glass and put my hands under it. Somehow or other, she feels safe that way. And when she purrs, it is such a reward for me. And that makes me feel so good. She has a very high meow. When she wants out if her window is locked, she talks to me. But she is still distant. She might go a month with no progress in her people skills and then wham, she does something totally different. She has never attempted to scratch me. But she hid from me for a long time. When she was still outside, the first 9 months or so, I could not get within 10 feet of her. It terrified her. She watched me from afar with my other cats and that helped a lot. I tempted her with baked chicken and would set her bowl about 6 feet from me. She would slink up to it but I could not make eye contact with her. She would run. I had to let her think she was being sneaky with the chicken. But baked chicken definately helped me attempt to 'tame her'. I would slowly each week move her bowl closer until finally I sat it behind me. This took a long time. Nearly a year of this. She wanted to belong to someone but she was so afraid. As time went on, she would 'allow me' to pet her back while she ate. But at that time, if I tried to pick her up she would bolt. And then there would be a setback in our progress. I still don't consider her tame but she will eventually get there. I doubt she will ever trust anyone else. She accepts my hubby in the house but he can't touch her.
She sleeps on a soft bed in a corner under a table. It is her spot. She feels secure there.
Today, she discovered the joys of playing with a ball. She has never shown any interest in toys until now. She ran all over the house batting this toy. It was so funny. She is resting now and I have her two rattle balls tucked in with her. I heard the balls making a noise and I couldn't believe it when I saw her playing. That tells me she is relaxing.........finally. This has been a joyful day!
This might not seem like a lot of progress since I have been working with over 1.5 yrs but she is truely amazing.
I live for the day she will approach ME and climb in my lap. I have to hold her on my shoulder at this time. She still does not feel comfortable in my lap. But if I hold her secure and support her feet she will relax on my shoulder.
She did jump on my legs once when they were covered up. I was napping on the couch when this happened. I haven't figured out if she knew my legs were there or not. Surely she knew. She stayed there about 3-4 minutes and then got down. I held my breath the whole time not wanting to move and startle her.
She is doing so good now compared to scared little skinny waif when I first met her. I can't imagine life without my Star-Kitty.
There were other ferals in her group but they slowly disappeared. I think people either shot them or trapped them. But I saved her.
A big hurdle was getting her in the house. I cracked the door and put drops of cheese right over the threshold. It took a while but she finally tried some and then glanced in the house and ran like heck away. This went on for a couple months till she came in.
I kept a crate on the poch made out of a Rubbermaid container with a soft pillow in it during the winter because I worried about her.
She has a good life now and a forever home. Our story is not over but is just beginning. One day she will know how wonderful it is to be loved and will relish me petting me. One day.
Nice to meet you all,
Jennifer
My name is Jennifer and I am 48, married with 13 cats.
We live in the country. All my cats except 1 were a rescue. The other were pregnant strays, or just strays and a couple ferals. All are fixed now.
My pride and joy is Star-kitty. I tell her she is my star feral kitty. I have been taking care of her for 16 months. It took her a year to come in the house. She has been coming in through a kitty window for about 3 months now. No one has ever touched her but me. All the other cats are tame. Star is just a little different due to whatever she had been through in her life. I am not sure of her age but probably around 2 or maybe even 3.
She lets me hold her now and even occasionally purrs. To pick her up, she has to be either eating or on her bed. The table over her bed is glass so I look at her through the glass and put my hands under it. Somehow or other, she feels safe that way. And when she purrs, it is such a reward for me. And that makes me feel so good. She has a very high meow. When she wants out if her window is locked, she talks to me. But she is still distant. She might go a month with no progress in her people skills and then wham, she does something totally different. She has never attempted to scratch me. But she hid from me for a long time. When she was still outside, the first 9 months or so, I could not get within 10 feet of her. It terrified her. She watched me from afar with my other cats and that helped a lot. I tempted her with baked chicken and would set her bowl about 6 feet from me. She would slink up to it but I could not make eye contact with her. She would run. I had to let her think she was being sneaky with the chicken. But baked chicken definately helped me attempt to 'tame her'. I would slowly each week move her bowl closer until finally I sat it behind me. This took a long time. Nearly a year of this. She wanted to belong to someone but she was so afraid. As time went on, she would 'allow me' to pet her back while she ate. But at that time, if I tried to pick her up she would bolt. And then there would be a setback in our progress. I still don't consider her tame but she will eventually get there. I doubt she will ever trust anyone else. She accepts my hubby in the house but he can't touch her.
She sleeps on a soft bed in a corner under a table. It is her spot. She feels secure there.
Today, she discovered the joys of playing with a ball. She has never shown any interest in toys until now. She ran all over the house batting this toy. It was so funny. She is resting now and I have her two rattle balls tucked in with her. I heard the balls making a noise and I couldn't believe it when I saw her playing. That tells me she is relaxing.........finally. This has been a joyful day!
This might not seem like a lot of progress since I have been working with over 1.5 yrs but she is truely amazing.
I live for the day she will approach ME and climb in my lap. I have to hold her on my shoulder at this time. She still does not feel comfortable in my lap. But if I hold her secure and support her feet she will relax on my shoulder.
She did jump on my legs once when they were covered up. I was napping on the couch when this happened. I haven't figured out if she knew my legs were there or not. Surely she knew. She stayed there about 3-4 minutes and then got down. I held my breath the whole time not wanting to move and startle her.
She is doing so good now compared to scared little skinny waif when I first met her. I can't imagine life without my Star-Kitty.
There were other ferals in her group but they slowly disappeared. I think people either shot them or trapped them. But I saved her.
A big hurdle was getting her in the house. I cracked the door and put drops of cheese right over the threshold. It took a while but she finally tried some and then glanced in the house and ran like heck away. This went on for a couple months till she came in.
I kept a crate on the poch made out of a Rubbermaid container with a soft pillow in it during the winter because I worried about her.
She has a good life now and a forever home. Our story is not over but is just beginning. One day she will know how wonderful it is to be loved and will relish me petting me. One day.
Nice to meet you all,
Jennifer