Okay,Lee and I have been fighting about this for a while now. I do all the cooking and cleaning and laundry. I do all the grocery shopping everythign "domestic" for that matter. It is a real struggle to get him to carry laundry up or down the stair or take his dirty dishes to the kitchen. I don't mind doing the heavy cleaning becasue he does work 50 hours a week and pays most of the bills. I just need him to help me out more. He will come home from working 10hrs and want to go out side and work on his little guy projects like building a heat box. How should I go about getting him to pull his own wieght?? Any help is much apprecitated!