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Originally Posted by Alaynna

I know this sounds crazy, but I have always been able to "control" my dreams....while i am dreaming I am able to tell my self to do things in the dream, I always remember my dreams unless I talk in my sleep...I have found that when my husband says that I talk in my sleep (I will have a whole conversation), I will not remember my dream......
Nope, not crazy. It's lucid dreaming, as Ryan pointed out. It's the coolest thing in the world, isn't it? (I have induced it a few times on purpose, but it's difficult for me to do as it involves retaining a bit of consciousness while going to sleep and I usually am hard asleep about two minutes after I lay down.) There's actually a very nifty song about lucid dreaming called Silent Lucidity by Queensryche ...

Anyway, IIRC, if you remember your dreams that means you woke up during the cycle. If you sleep through, you don't remember the dreams. I think that's how it is, anyway.

I rarely have nightmares, but I do have the coolest dreams. The only recurring dream I have as an adult is one where we are staying in this HUGE house, and it's furnished. (We don't own it.) I don't know my furniture very well, but the furnishings are all classic European styles, and there is always one big room that is jam-packed with furniture (and sometimes people in evening wear); it's almost like a show room. But the thing about this house is that there is always something wrong with it, usually a section of the roof that is literally falling in. When I see that part in the dream, I think I'm usually glad that we don't own the house because that is going to be an expensive repair.


When I was a kid, I had a few recurring dreams. Well, one was a nightmare, actually. In that one, I was in the parking lot of a local grocery store, running toward the store because the grim reaper was chasing me. Only I couldn't really run; it felt like my feet were encased in concrete. I almost make it to the store when the grim reaper catches up to me. I turn around, and under the hood is—my dad. It's kind of funny in a morbid way now, but it was a terrifying nightmare as a child, and it did a pretty fair job of symbolizing how I felt about my dad IRL.

My other dream was me and my older sister (12 years older than I am) walking through a mall. In the hallway of the mall, there is a display in a 10-gallon fish tank. It's sort of a diorama of a shoe store. We stand there looking into it, and all of a sudden, we are in it. My sister starts talking to the proprietor, and I wander around looking at stuff. The carpet, I remember, was two-tone shag, gold and light green. The walls were lined with shelves with shoes on them, and the floor was filled with free-standing racks, the kind a lot of stores display their clearance shoes on. The racks were made of brass, very shiny brass. I picked my nose and wiped it on one of the racks (hey, I was a kid), and then wandered off down a concrete hallway. Down this hallway to the right were rooms, cubicles really, made of that cheap plywood panelling. The rooms didn't have doors, just doorways. I looked in every one, and in one of the rooms there was a bald man, completely tatooed, sitting on a wooden stool playing an acoustic guitar. Then I woke up.

I love dreams.
 
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Wow some very interesting replies! Nicky me thinks you have psychic powers!! Very strange that it was all to do with the sea and then the Tsunami happened...
I feel like my dreams are rubbish now compared to all of you guys. How do you actually do the lucid dreaming thing? I dont think Ive ever done it.
A few of you have said you've dreamt a family member has died, I've thankfully never done that. When I was using Nicorette patches I did have a dream where I managed to get all the females in my family involved in something really really bad and I had to give me own life to save them. Still here though so not thinking too far into it lol.
I am VERY bad for saying to someone, 'oh did you manage to find out what was wrong with your car?' or 'whens your job interview' and they go 'EH?' and I clearly remember the conversation, whatever it may have been, but they have no recollection whatsoever and these things have nothing to do with them so the only explanation is that I dreamt the conversation...
 

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Originally Posted by Pombina

I feel like my dreams are rubbish now compared to all of you guys.
Translation: wow, you guys are messed UP!!
Kidding, just kidding.

Originally Posted by Pombina

How do you actually do the lucid dreaming thing? I dont think Ive ever done it.
Most people have done it by accident; you're asleep and suddenly realize you're dreaming. Doing it on purpose is different. I was able to do it by trying to maintain focus while falling asleep. I think I counted, actually visualizing each number ... You can start asking yourself several times a day, "Am I dreaming or not?" Eventually, you will start asking yourself that in dreams, and then, if you are aware enough, the answer will be yes, and you will be in a lucid dream! Here's a site with a few tips.
 
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Originally Posted by evnshawn

Translation: wow, you guys are messed UP!!
Kidding, just kidding.

Most people have done it by accident; you're asleep and suddenly realize you're dreaming. Doing it on purpose is different. I was able to do it by trying to maintain focus while falling asleep. I think I counted, actually visualizing each number ... You can start asking yourself several times a day, "Am I dreaming or not?" Eventually, you will start asking yourself that in dreams, and then, if you are aware enough, the answer will be yes, and you will be in a lucid dream! Here's a site with a few tips.
Ok I think I actually have done that. A lot of my dreams are ludicrus e.g Im playing with Nismo and all of a sudden she turns into a blue Smartie but we continue playing lol.... but I also have dreams which are just so incredably real I have to ask myself whether Im asleep or awake. Those ones often don't seem to have any relavence, nothing happens like I'll just be at my mums or shopping. I dont see the point in them.
 

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Originally Posted by Pombina

Ok I think I actually have done that. A lot of my dreams are ludicrus e.g Im playing with Nismo and all of a sudden she turns into a blue Smartie but we continue playing lol.... but I also have dreams which are just so incredably real I have to ask myself whether Im asleep or awake. Those ones often don't seem to have any relavence, nothing happens like I'll just be at my mums or shopping. I dont see the point in them.
Well, it's only a lucid dream if you realize you're dreaming. I mean, if you ask yourself "Am I awake" and the answer is yes even though you're not, then you aren't quite there yet.
I've done that before.

But the cool part about lucid dreaming is that once you realize you are dreaming, you can control it! Fly, breathe underwater, beat up the kid who tormented you in fifth grade, whatever.
 
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Ok I just looked at the website and Ive definately done that. Sometimes Im having a bad dream or Ive done something reeeally bad (in my dream) which in real life would get me in a whole load of trouble and I'll say to myself whilst dreaming 'Its ok its just a dream so you dont really have to deal with it'.
 

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I had an AWFUL dream the other night. I was so tired so I went to bed. Well, I was in a really deep sleep because I always hear Trav say good-bye and hug and kiss me in the morning and that morning, I didn't hear him. I didn't realize that he hadn't kissed me good-bye until after I had this dream and panicked. I dreamt that he had died and I woke up crying because I didn't get to tell him good-bye. Well, I woke up and went to hug him and he WASN'T THERE! So I panicked and thought that he hadn't really said good-bye and started crying. I eventually fell back to sleep and had called Trav on the way to work to make sure he said good-bye. he said that I didn't even move when he kissed me and didn't say I love you back. I have never felt the way I did when I woke up and he wasn't there ever in my life
It was all too real....
 

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Originally Posted by KitEKats4Eva!

LOL! I fly in dreams too - until I realise that I'm flying, and then I can't make myself do it any more sooooo frustrating.

Now Wyan, please don't tell me your zombie dream is a result of you liking zombie movies. Max LOVES zombie movies, so one day I watched Dawn Of The Dead with him. I almost died
Of course it is a result of liking zombie movies!
I liked both Dawn of the Dead movies, but don't really care for horror movies otherwise.
 

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Originally Posted by Sweets

I used to have similar dreams but about college so I contacted a Dream Analyst. Her answer...it was a happy time in your life that you would like to go back to, but your conscious mind knows you don't belong there anymore.
Haha! That's funny! I hated high school and passed by the skin of my teeth!!!! OR maybe it means it's a time in your life you should never go back to again...

Oh, and I just remembered another one I have almost weekly...I'm driving and I go careening off the side of the freeway! I have that one a lot! It's so vivid that i actually do a double take to make sure I didn't actually drive somewhere and got home somehow. I dream I'm flying too.
 
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I just remembered my dream from last night!!! And Im actually pretty upset now. I went out last night and had a few drinks so maybe this affected how I dreamt.
I dreamt Mark and I were shopping and the heel came off my boot so we were in a shoe shop to see if they could swap them but they didnt have those ones in stock, so anyway I was waiting for them to find me a pair of shoes to walk home in and the shop turned into a house type thing and all my family were there and my Dad walked in with my Grandad who died about 6 years ago. I was hysterically crying and hugging him and taking in his smell (ok my eyes are filling up now) but I knew in my dream that it was just a dream and that was how he was able to be there. He just spent the whole time letting my family hug him and I just cried the whole time. Then it turned back into the shop and apparently the girl had found me a pair of shoes hours ago but Id been hugging my Grandad so she didnt want to disturb me.
 

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Originally Posted by menagerie mama

Haha! That's funny! I hated high school and passed by the skin of my teeth!!!! OR maybe it means it's a time in your life you should never go back to again...

Oh, and I just remembered another one I have almost weekly...I'm driving and I go careening off the side of the freeway! I have that one a lot! It's so vivid that i actually do a double take to make sure I didn't actually drive somewhere and got home somehow. I dream I'm flying too.
Let me pretend I'm a Dream Analyst for a second. Let's see.......
Your driving really sucks and you worry that it will greatly affect your life one day. Quit driving and the dream will cease recurring. Okay I'm done.
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I just remembered my dream from last night!!! And Im actually pretty upset now. I went out last night and had a few drinks so maybe this affected how I dreamt.
I dreamt Mark and I were shopping and the heel came off my boot so we were in a shoe shop to see if they could swap them but they didnt have those ones in stock, so anyway I was waiting for them to find me a pair of shoes to walk home in and the shop turned into a house type thing and all my family were there and my Dad walked in with my Grandad who died about 6 years ago. I was hysterically crying and hugging him and taking in his smell (ok my eyes are filling up now) but I knew in my dream that it was just a dream and that was how he was able to be there. He just spent the whole time letting my family hug him and I just cried the whole time. Then it turned back into the shop and apparently the girl had found me a pair of shoes hours ago but Id been hugging my Grandad so she didnt want to disturb me.
You really miss him don't you?
 
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Yeah I really do, he was on 64 when he died and he was the coolest man on the planet. It was a waste
Its cool to be able to spend time with people in dreams though, when they're not around in person anymore.
 

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I've had meany bad dream's. But there was only one that actually made me cry. I don't remember all of it, but I remember my mom falling from a very high place and dieing. my dad was i it and I remember hugging him and crying into him. When I woke up I cried to. Ever since then I've been scared to detah of hights for some reason. Heck, after thta night I wouldn't even sit on my dad's shoulder's.
 
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