I've read as many of the posts on socializing feral cats as I can for now, so I guess I would just like to share my issue and see what people think or hear advice you have. Chip and CoCo are about the same age (6 monthish). We got Chip when she was about 1 month old and brought her up alone for 4 months. Then we got CoCo (my dad had a mother and a litter out in his barn that he feed and CoCo is one of the kittens that would let him hold her and play with her a little). When we brought CoCo home, I set her up in a small room by herself with all the goodies. I would go in to feed her and change the litter and socialize ....she would actually come to me for petting. So we finally let her come out at her own pace and meet Chip after reading the great advice on this site. No problem there. Now it's been about a month since she's been roaming around the apartment and I'm sad because she'll let Chip touch her and she'll let my husband come to her and pet her but she runs away from me when I try to approach her.
It's strange because when I'm sitting on the couch she will jump into my lap, asked to be petted and then fall asleep there but if I try to approach her anywhere else, even if I'm down on her level and bearing treats or toys, she runs away. So should I keep doing the "ignore kitty all but feeding and cleaning litter" or should I do regression therapy and bring her back into a private area and feed her and play with her at a certain time a day. I'm being patient but I don't want her to be afraid of me and nobody else forever. Maybe I'm just being selfish, but I can't help it she's so cute.
I guess I just need reassurance! Thanks in advance for your help!
Julie
p.s. Having CoCo has been GREAT HELP in socializing Chip who used to bite me all the time but doesn't at all now that she has a sister!
p.p.s. I can't believe my husband is a cat person now.
Julie
p.s. Having CoCo has been GREAT HELP in socializing Chip who used to bite me all the time but doesn't at all now that she has a sister!
p.p.s. I can't believe my husband is a cat person now.