Ok so I met a guy at my birthday bash thing. I'm now 31, he's, um...23. We had some good conversation (that he started) about him wanting kids and family and he wants a woman more mature than the girls he knows and has dated. He got out of a 5 year relationship recently and she cheated on him, etc, and he's looking for a more serious woman. Is this a rediculous age gap, and should I even consider it? I have to admit, I have a personal preference for guys younger than me, (legal, of course )but they seem too immature after a while, like all they want to do is party and stuff. I was told by a lot of people that night that he seems nice and he was really polite to everyone there, including my parents. I work with his friend's mom and she said he's a really nice guy, the best out of all her daughter's friends. I kinda blew him off more than I normally would because beer was involved and I didn't know if it was beer goggles or he really liked me, but he acted like he did before he was drinking so I don't know. I know that only I can make the decision, but.....What do you think? I don't even know what will come of it, if anything, but is it worth a try or is it gross? I recently got some advice that I should stop looking for a potential husband and just go with it and stop worrying so much about it....
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1/30/06 at 6:39pm